Do you notice him noticing others?

Contributor: misterazor misterazor
does it bother you when your man notices another? how do you respond? do you ever notices others? is there a double standard in your own relationship on this topic? just curious.
01/15/2013
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I honestly have never noticed my husband checking out another woman. Maybe he does it very discreetly, but then again you would think I'd notice..I'm the jealous kind!

Yes, I do sometimes look at men. So sue me.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I've seen him looking at a girls ass and tits. Then again, it doesn't help these women who he's seen likes to let their thongs hang out and more than half the cleavage. Normally if they walk toward him or in front of him like that, they'll try to flirt and I'm right there, he'll turn me around or look at my chest just to point out the fact that
1. He's married and
2. He likes MY cleavage style (just enough) and no thong showing.
Normally that pisses them off.
01/15/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by misterazor
does it bother you when your man notices another? how do you respond? do you ever notices others? is there a double standard in your own relationship on this topic? just curious.
LOL! My Man is a horny bastard.

Yes, he notices other women. He has said, "When I stop looking, shoot me. I'm nearly dead."

I am secure in our relationship and it doesn't bother me at all. We've been faithful to each other for many years, after a few years in an Open Relationship. We're married and have children and I have no fear about his loyalty.

When I see him eying an other woman, in real life or on TV I usually say, "She's hot, huh?" Of course, he catches me eying up good looking men, too. So, it's fine for both of us. Eyes only, no touching.
01/15/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Yes, I notice!....Usually because we're checking out the same people and I'm about to point someone out when I realize he's looking, too .

I encourage him to scope out hotties.....and then inform me so I can scope them, also.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Hermosura21 Hermosura21
I have seen him sometimes but doesnt bother me mu c/
01/15/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
We met on a site with a lot of user-uploaded sex photos, and I see him commenting on them and liking them all the time. It bothered me at first, until I started to realize that he was usually picturing the girls in the pictures as me. And even if he just found them attractive, he wasn't doing anything other than letting them know. I don't mind as much anymore, because I do the same thing in my own mind when I see really cute looking guys.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm not in a relationship right now, it doesn't bother me if it's once in awhile, but if it's often it starts to get to me.
01/16/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by P'Gell
LOL! My Man is a horny bastard.

Yes, he notices other women. He has said, "When I stop looking, shoot me. I'm nearly dead."

I am secure in our relationship and it doesn't bother me at all. We've been faithful to ... more
how wonderful to be secure. i love it. and admitting that women are also human and notice other good looking men. somewhere along the line it seems society decided there was something wrong with admitting it...that to lie about it was somehow better than to admit the truth that we all look...we all notice. we would be dead if we did not. thanks for the post.
01/16/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
Yes, I notice!....Usually because we're checking out the same people and I'm about to point someone out when I realize he's looking, too .

I encourage him to scope out hotties.....and then inform me so I can scope them, also.
good times. i love when a women can find other women attractive and not feel threatened by it. my wife is similar to what you've said here. she may not be actively scoping, but she does appreciate when i point out.
01/16/2013