So, I debated which category to place this in, but I decided to put it in here since it's something that can apply to men or women, couples or singles!
Who here has been or knows someone who is/was afraid of sex toys? Maybe just some that are larger in size, maybe made of a certain material, maybe only toys used for bondage?
This topic came to mind when I was looking through my collection and very proud of myself to be honest. A very long time ago I used to collect toys, I'll admit I started before I was 18, my mom bought me a vibe when I was 14 in an attempt to prevent me from having sex with one of my boyfriends, because a friend of mine was having sex already at that age! Well, I had a small collection going, and by the time I was 18 I had an admirable collection!
Then, my ex husband (being the jerk that he is) wanted to try using toys too, but he was extremely aggressive about it. Aggressive to the point where he almost liked to torture me with toys that were clearly too large and painful. I threw all but 3 of my toys out and hid the 3 that I kept. Keeping in mind that I know this is a rare instance, because most people don't tend to be that sadistic when it comes to someone they "love", I think he just had several screws loose.
For years I was actually afraid to use toys, until I met who I am with now. It changed everything. I am now using them again, building up my lovely little collection, and have a partner who encourages me to try something new once in a while that I'll enjoy but never forces me to. Also, he is very gentle with me. Has anyone ever had an experience like this, or maybe they just are afraid to try certain types of toys?
I have a friend who is very afraid to even try anal beads, yet she will use plugs. She has no clue why, but she just imagines horrible things happening if she inserts that long string inside of her!!!
Who here has been or knows someone who is/was afraid of sex toys? Maybe just some that are larger in size, maybe made of a certain material, maybe only toys used for bondage?
This topic came to mind when I was looking through my collection and very proud of myself to be honest. A very long time ago I used to collect toys, I'll admit I started before I was 18, my mom bought me a vibe when I was 14 in an attempt to prevent me from having sex with one of my boyfriends, because a friend of mine was having sex already at that age! Well, I had a small collection going, and by the time I was 18 I had an admirable collection!
Then, my ex husband (being the jerk that he is) wanted to try using toys too, but he was extremely aggressive about it. Aggressive to the point where he almost liked to torture me with toys that were clearly too large and painful. I threw all but 3 of my toys out and hid the 3 that I kept. Keeping in mind that I know this is a rare instance, because most people don't tend to be that sadistic when it comes to someone they "love", I think he just had several screws loose.
For years I was actually afraid to use toys, until I met who I am with now. It changed everything. I am now using them again, building up my lovely little collection, and have a partner who encourages me to try something new once in a while that I'll enjoy but never forces me to. Also, he is very gentle with me. Has anyone ever had an experience like this, or maybe they just are afraid to try certain types of toys?
I have a friend who is very afraid to even try anal beads, yet she will use plugs. She has no clue why, but she just imagines horrible things happening if she inserts that long string inside of her!!!
