Have you ever had someone secretly photograph you and post online?

Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by MissCandyland
Wow! I'm sorry this is happening to you. If someone in my family was doing this to me, I would never be around them...ever. I would discuss with everyone in my family what she was doing to me and that is why I avoid her like the plague. I can ... more
Thanks darling. That is encouraging. Unfortunately, even my mom won't stand up to her. She never did. Even while we were kids. My dad has and still does when things get extreme, which is kind of often, but she's... ruthless? I mean really, I've never in my life met anyone who truly is this heartless. I do wish my family would just give me a little support with this one, but there's not a chance. If there ever was a chance, it'd have happened when she ruined a $1,000 lap-top that my partner bought me as a gift. So after that incident, I totally gave up hopes of them just giving me a tiny ounce of support with these things.

Now, I do have an older sister who actually has supported me a good deal when these problems arise with this person, but she's not exactly been around me or my family much lately. She's doing her "alone time." Sounds like it may be something I should try.

I believe I will go over and talk with at least my mom and dad tomorrow and let them know that I am upset about it and won't be coming around until she isn't. I at least owe them an explanation I guess.

Butts: Thanks and LOL @ your screenname. I actually didn't know this would be something you could file as harrassment, but I appreciate you guys letting me know. I might just tell her that I'll file charges and see if that scares her. She is certainly in NO position to deal with the law right now... Really. So it might just be a good solution. I know just threatening it and telling her that it is against the law--her crazy actions--and she'll piss herself.
07/04/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Peggi
If you report it to facebook, they will take the photos down if they are of you. In addition, you can report her account, and she may end up being deleted completely if it is for repeat offenses.

If it were me, I would've grabbed the ... more
That is great news! I will have to report it. I know she still has me blocked, but I am able to log into a different account and see She hasn't figured out that I can do that just yet.

I sure need to get some more courage in me. I've always been afraid of any conflict. It's really a bad thing because I allow people to disrespect me way too far and then know that I'm to blame after not standing up. Now, I've had enough in the past and stood up. I'm quiet and easy going, but when I finally have enough, I go really crazy. Lol. It has worked in the past. Well, it didn't fix what she'd done and she didn't offer to help the huge problem she'd caused at that time, but she damn sure didn't do anything else to me until now. Crap. Lol.

Oh yikes. I don't blame you for reporting her after ya'll told her to stop. Ugh! Why do people want to keep putting photos up when you don't want them to? I defintiely don't blame you for messing up her camera either. I'm glad she didn't do it again. I need to take lessons from you! Lol.
07/04/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Ms. N
Not that I know of...but I wouldn't be totally surprised if it had happened. I do know that certain people *have* taken pictures of me on their cell phones without my knowledge. I know of one instance where a guy saw a picture of me somewhere, ... more
LOL OMG! That would be creepy. Lol.
07/04/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by ksparkles16
My goodness, dare I say what a BITC*! That's terrible, I hope this is just some random cosin and not a sibling or something. I hate it when people take photos of me without my permission, but I haven't had an issue that extreme. I'd ... more
You know, I NEVER thought of that! Now my mind's a workin'. Lol. I usually don't do revenge, but oh, how this one would so really be worth it! I'd have to get creative though. She's not exactly... shy. She takes much worse photos of her own self and puts em' online. I could get think of something though, surely.
07/04/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
It has never happened to me, but with all the answers posted here, they should give you some options to handle this situation. In a public setting it is sometime hard to deal with, if you're not sure what will happen to the pictures.
07/06/2012