My son just turned 2 a few weeks ago and He is constantly throwing temper tantrums and throwing things and hitting me. He doesn't want to eat anymore because he just wants to play and pay attention to other things. He WILL NOT sleep without me taking him for a ride in the car. I also need to attempt to take his binky away soon so that's just going to add to his rebellion. I'm at my wits end! I am willing to take any advice on how to calm the madness.
The father is living with us but his priorities are completely fucked up. If he's not working doing roofing and siding Which is completely random. Somedays he is working normal 8-5, somedays it's earlier, somedays it's way later, Somedays it's raining and he's not working, And he doesn't work at all during the winter. If he has any free time he sleeps until noon and the day is always doing what he wants. There has never been a day, since he was born, where he has watched the baby for more than 3 hours. I love him and he treats us great, when he's around. Every time I confront him he says that I'm always nagging him and that he's done with this. He never wants to hear what i have to say. He always uses the fact that I don't have a job everytime we fight, but he always tells me that I don't need to get a job just take care of the baby, the house, and all the paperwork. He doesn't realize how much is involved with those three things. What should I do? just suck it up, leave him, or keep telling him how I feel about everything. I don't want my son not to know his father.
The father is living with us but his priorities are completely fucked up. If he's not working doing roofing and siding Which is completely random. Somedays he is working normal 8-5, somedays it's earlier, somedays it's way later, Somedays it's raining and he's not working, And he doesn't work at all during the winter. If he has any free time he sleeps until noon and the day is always doing what he wants. There has never been a day, since he was born, where he has watched the baby for more than 3 hours. I love him and he treats us great, when he's around. Every time I confront him he says that I'm always nagging him and that he's done with this. He never wants to hear what i have to say. He always uses the fact that I don't have a job everytime we fight, but he always tells me that I don't need to get a job just take care of the baby, the house, and all the paperwork. He doesn't realize how much is involved with those three things. What should I do? just suck it up, leave him, or keep telling him how I feel about everything. I don't want my son not to know his father.
