that lived with you, didn't have a job, hung out with his/her friends ALL day from the time he/she woke up til they went to bed...& barely texted you throughout the day...everyday... how would you feel?
How would you feel if you had a boyfriend.....or girlfriend...
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like a piece of s***... right?
10/29/2012
I would dump him or her
10/29/2012
Hurt, sad, belittled and not wanted or loved. Is this what you are going through? If so--I am sorry and if you need a friend, message me. I have been in some situations like this and can maybe help a bit.
10/29/2012
I had a husband who didn't work, goofed on the computer all day, and called me constantly to find out where I was to make sure I wasn't cheating on him.
I divorced his ass.
I divorced his ass.
10/29/2012
Like he/she is a loser!
10/29/2012
I'd leave. I'm in a somewhat similar situation (live-in boyfriend without a job) but he does what he can to bring in some money, is searching for a job, had a job previously (he got fired for something he didn't do) and he spends lots of time with me and does his part to keep the house in shape. I love him and I'll support him as best as I can until we get through this rough patch. Now if he were spending all day with friends and pretty much ignoring me, it would be entirely different. That's not a boyfriend, that is someone taking severe advantage of you.
10/29/2012
I would feel just like js250. That just isn't a good situation to be in. I really hope you can find your way through it. I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to.
10/29/2012
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Right.
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
like a piece of s***... right?
10/29/2012
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exactly
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
like a piece of s***... right?
10/30/2012
Like their parent. I'd tell them it was time to get out of my life.
10/30/2012
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right. that doesn't sound right; at all.
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
like a piece of s***... right?
10/30/2012
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Used/Taken advantage of.
Originally posted by
<3BF
right. that doesn't sound right; at all.
10/30/2012
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Uhhhhmmmm? I hope this is not happening to you right now, because if it is....I would pack his or her's shit right now and throw it to the god damn curb!!!!!! Screw that shit!
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
that lived with you, didn't have a job, hung out with his/her friends ALL day from the time he/she woke up til they went to bed...& barely texted you throughout the day...everyday... how would you feel?
Life is too damn short to allow a leech into your life that just sucks you dry and leaves you with nothing in return. Plenty of other job-having respectfull sould out there for the taking, just move on ASAP!
10/30/2012
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Hell yes! That's the way it's done. Emotionaly messy, but effective.
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
I had a husband who didn't work, goofed on the computer all day, and called me constantly to find out where I was to make sure I wasn't cheating on him.
I divorced his ass.
I divorced his ass.
10/30/2012
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You are so awesome babes
Originally posted by
js250
Hurt, sad, belittled and not wanted or loved. Is this what you are going through? If so--I am sorry and if you need a friend, message me. I have been in some situations like this and can maybe help a bit.
10/30/2012
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Hey Hun, I have had some problems simiular to this and js250 is a awesome women she is so great to talk to. if you have not messaged her yet, please do it Hun. I am also here not as experianced as her but I am home all day with my kids and he is usually out running the streets for all I know. That or being a complete ass to me. Always great to be called a nasty stupid bitch and then get sex a few hours later almost a daily thing here. I am Here Babes
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
that lived with you, didn't have a job, hung out with his/her friends ALL day from the time he/she woke up til they went to bed...& barely texted you throughout the day...everyday... how would you feel?
10/30/2012
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I would feel like it was time for a change.
Originally posted by
Beautiful-Disaster
that lived with you, didn't have a job, hung out with his/her friends ALL day from the time he/she woke up til they went to bed...& barely texted you throughout the day...everyday... how would you feel?
10/30/2012
It sounds to me like you are being severely taken advantage of and if I were in your position, I would kick him out. I'm not a parent for a reason, I refuse to parent someone else's child under my roof when they should responsible, functioning adults.
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