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Contributor: Beaners Beaners
My boyfriend and I have multiple toys that we want, between the two of us, we have quite a wishlist.

So just yesterday, I accepted a new assignment for a review, but I wanted to check with my boyfriend first and make sure it was something he wanted to help review.

So now I have enough points that I can buy the Nexus G Play Medium that I've been lusting after. But wait! Should I save up the money for a Liberator Wedge? I want a set of the Luna Beads!

I want to ask his opinion on it, but I just asked him yesterday about a different toy! He's going to think this is all that I do! (Granted, he's never complained about my lovely side job, he thinks it's great.) Although, I do have to say, I'm currently unemployed, so Eden does take up a good amount of my day...

Does anyone else have this problem? Afraid people will think you're on here too damn much? Hah!
01/13/2011
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Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I told my man that if he wants his own toys, he can open his own EF account, which he has. My account, my toys. Although I have used points and gift cards to buy him presents.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
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Originally posted by PassionQT
I told my man that if he wants his own toys, he can open his own EF account, which he has. My account, my toys. Although I have used points and gift cards to buy him presents.
That sounds like a great idea!
Nexus G-play is unisex and the wedge is certainly for couples.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
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Originally posted by Pleasure Piratess
That sounds like a great idea!
Nexus G-play is unisex and the wedge is certainly for couples.
Exactly. I try to get things that we can both enjoy. Although I did seriously save up and the first thing I ever bought with my points was a Fleshlight for him. Although we can both technically play with that, too.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Beaners
My boyfriend and I have multiple toys that we want, between the two of us, we have quite a wishlist.

So just yesterday, I accepted a new assignment for a review, but I wanted to check with my boyfriend first and make sure it was something he ... more
It's just beginner's excitement lol. Once you're here a while it will balance out. I still Eden and I'm on here quite a bit, but I am not on here ALL THE TIME anymore, which I was initially. I also at first couldn't ever decide what to buy/request next..there was just soooo much I wanted because Eden was a whole new world to me and I was so used to the brick and mortar sex shops that sell only the cheaper toys. Just keep telling yourself that the toys aren't going anywhere, you can save up for one, get it, and then save up for the next.

I try to prioritize for myself what I need at that moment. For example, right now there are a lot of new toys I like. But, I have a ton of vibrating toys. If I think about it I have one to take care of just about any need, so I don't NEED anymore. But, I need more storage and I really need something like the Liberator Throe. So, those are my latest items that I am saving up for and I'm trying to remind myself that while yes all the new toys are very pretty I have some at home that work just as well and I REALLY need those other things first.

As for getting something he will like, I try to balance things out. I get mainly toys for me because he doesn't really like toys for himself, but if something seems like it'd be great for us as a couple I pick that up first.
01/13/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
My gf and are in sync when we buy pretty much anything, even when we grab a bite to eat.
01/14/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I pick the toys solo.

My boyfriend might view it when I pick it, and throw in some input but it usually doesn't sway me.

Out of respect, I don't pick 12 inch dongs and such so I don't make him feel bad or anything.
01/14/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
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Originally posted by dv8
My gf and are in sync when we buy pretty much anything, even when we grab a bite to eat.
That's pretty impressive. My boyfriend and I are both indecisive as all getout. Picking out what to do for lunch is a challenge for us. Not because we have differing opinions, but because neither one of us cares.
01/14/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Beaners
My boyfriend and I have multiple toys that we want, between the two of us, we have quite a wishlist.

So just yesterday, I accepted a new assignment for a review, but I wanted to check with my boyfriend first and make sure it was something he ... more
My Mr used to give me crap about being on here too much, but he's kind of mellowed out. Especially since he knows that I'm not just looking at toys all day, I'm on the forums. It's basically replaced my mainstream Facebook account. Mostly because FB has WAY more drama than the EF Forums.
01/14/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I buy what I want and when he quits working so much and is able to be intimate with me more often, I'll stop buying/using so many toys. Until then, I'll use what I want and he can play with me or not. It's all about choices!
01/14/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
My boyfriend knows I don't just spend time on her and since we are long distance, he kinda understands. He's all for masturbation, considering I was so ANTI it when we began dating. I thought it was nasty, lol. Yeah. (No laughing at me please)
01/18/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
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Originally posted by Illusional
My boyfriend knows I don't just spend time on her and since we are long distance, he kinda understands. He's all for masturbation, considering I was so ANTI it when we began dating. I thought it was nasty, lol. Yeah. (No laughing at me please)
That's okay, I have a friend who claims to have never masturbated, she thinks it's weird. A friend bought her a rabbit vibe and she's afraid of it. I wasn't anti masturbation, but I was/still kind of am anti doing anything on webcam. I duno, it weirds me out. We just became not long distance, so I don't really have to worry about it anymore, except for the fact that he's away on a business trip for a week and a half and I KNOW he's going to want to play.

At least I have a new Nexus G Play Large to play with now...
01/20/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Beaners
Exactly. I try to get things that we can both enjoy. Although I did seriously save up and the first thing I ever bought with my points was a Fleshlight for him. Although we can both technically play with that, too.
we dont use toys n never will but since it was free i got the bullet. ill give the vibrator toy un opened to friend at bacch. party im sure as gag gift lol
01/21/2011