If you're turned on by the idea of cuckolding (sleeping with another man) your husband or boyfriend while he watches or is in the other room, then possibly you have him orally clean you or you have actually done this or currently do this to your husband or boyfriend...what is the main aspect of this that turns you on?

Is it your dominance, just knowing you can sleep with anyone you want while he can't, knowing he's watching, knowing he loves you so much he allows you to sleep with others or something else?

I'm just very curious! I could never do it with my wife, but the fantasy is a very erotic and hot fantasy.

Thank you in advance for those of you who are willing to answer and be honest.