The New Intimacy

Not even sure which category to put this poll in. This morning I got deliberately "flashed" by a TOO young stranger. Have you ever been flashed like this, or have YOU been the flasher? Private poll.

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Driving to work this morning, as I pass the bus stop for the local high school, a young lady...alone at the bus stop, bends over..FAR over, revealing her either bare buttocks or perhaps she was wearing a tiny thong (I was driving, and TRYING to keep my eyes on the road). She looked over her shoulder and grinned, so I KNOW this was a "show". When I stopped for the light, half a block up, I saw her repeat this two other times for male drivers.

My only thought was "someone is going to end up stopping and she is going to get far more negative attention then she wants with this little game". Of course, had I dared stop and tell her what she was doing was really stupid, I would have probably been the one in trouble....so I just drove on.

Have any of you ever been witness to this kind of "show"? Have YOU ever been the one to do that kind of flashing??? WHAT were you thinking?? Please share.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I have been flashed before
19
No, Never been flashed before
42
I have been the flasher before......
7
Other????
1
Total votes: 69 (66 voters)
Poll is closed
09/21/2011
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Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
There is a ferry that connects us to Galveston here and it takes about 15 minutes or so to cross. I always get out of the car when I'm going there (normally in a bathing suit) and feed the seagulls from the back of the ferry. One day I was walking back to the car and this guy is sitting in his car and whisted to get my attention. I started walking that way then as I got closer could see that he was jacking off...ugh.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I've never been flashed before. The girl who flashed you probably wouldn't fit in this category, but serious flashers often get a sexual thrill from the shock and fear they cause in their victims. Knowing that, I would probably point and laugh if some guy jumped out of the bushes in front of me.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Never been flashed before. Would like to keep it that way.
09/21/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Illumin8
Never been flashed before. Would like to keep it that way.
Ditto!
09/21/2011
Contributor: I'll Miss You EF :( I'll Miss You EF :(
This sounds like something one of the girls at my school would do. But I never want to be flashed, ever!
09/21/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I'd just roll with it and let it go. She was obviously just doing it for attention...or to cause car accidents.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Never happened to me, and happy it hasn't.
09/21/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Public nudity is legal in San Francisco so a flasher wouldn't surprise me.
09/21/2011
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I have been hollered at to flash by guys at a concert, but I have not flashed anyone.
09/21/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Driving to work this morning, as I pass the bus stop for the local high school, a young lady...alone at the bus stop, bends over..FAR over, revealing her either bare buttocks or perhaps she was wearing a tiny thong (I was driving, and TRYING to keep ... more
we were driving down the road before and someone mooned us..i didnt see it though..my sister did..thats it though
09/21/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
meh, i probably would have chuckled and gone on with my day. the neighboring college is pretty open so it wouldn't surprise me if i saw some skin randomly.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I've been flashed a number of times. A guy who jogged ahead of me then bent down to tie a shoelace in a way that allowed his hard penis to be out of his shorts. The guy in the apt across the street from me who opened his wide, low curtains every morning in the buff. A woman who bent over facing the rest of the class to fill out a form, allowing her top to hang away from her and expose all.

None of these incidents bothered me.
09/21/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I have been flashed before. I think it's a pretty dumb thing to do, and depending on the situation it can be a major trigger for abuse survivors, but I never reported the incidents. It's a pretty stupid thing for an underage girl to do, but I'm not sure there's anything you can do about it.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have been flashed several times as a young girl, teenager, and even just a few years ago. The last was the only stranger that flashed me; and it was certainly the most surprising. I was driving to the airport in the middle of the night and a hooker dropped her coat (that was all she was wearing, she was barefoot too) as she stepped into the my lane of traffic. She was screaming, "Hey, baby! I'll make you feel real nice!" I couldn't stop laughing. I think she was completely wasted.
09/22/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I have been flashed several times as a young girl, teenager, and even just a few years ago. The last was the only stranger that flashed me; and it was certainly the most surprising. I was driving to the airport in the middle of the night and a ... more
So, did you feel nice? LOL
09/22/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
So, did you feel nice? LOL
I guess I did feel nice because of the laugh I got from it, but honestly she was a tad gross looking. I had a great story to tell my mom when I picked her up at the airport, though.

My husband, on the other hand, has never been flashed by a stranger. He is feeling a bit cheated right now. Poor thing.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I have flashed before and been flashed. I did this to Amish guy when I was on the bus. Hehe it was funny at the time, but looking back how stupid. I keep my body to my self now, except my husband.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I've been on both sides of this. It's never really bothered me.
09/22/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I've never flashed anyone myself. I'm sure people have seen my stocking tops, (hey, stocking fall) but not any part that isn't accessible when one is wearing a bathing suit or underwear.

I have been flashed, more times than I can count. The first time I was about 7 or 8, and a really stoned or drunk man was wandering around about 2 blocks from the school with his penis hanging out. It was as just the kids were getting out of school. He started following myself and a few friends. I had to walk home, and the last few blocks alone. It was the first time it occurred to me, "That man could hurt me with that penis." I was so scared, I ran all the way home and told my mom. She locked the door but refused to call the police, "You don't want that kind of attention."

It happened numerous times when I was in High School and college. As a a young, small woman, I always felt threatened, and never gave the man any attention. They do it to make you scared or shocked, so even as a young teen, I never gave him what they wanted. Although once a guy jerked off to my friend and I while we were walking and he was in a truck. "Hey, girls, you want some of this?" We laughed, but that's what you do when you're 15. We were scared, and I think it was better than acting afraid.

I think it's a foolhardy thing to do, man or woman.
09/22/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I've never flashed anyone myself. I'm sure people have seen my stocking tops, (hey, stocking fall) but not any part that isn't accessible when one is wearing a bathing suit or underwear.

I have been flashed, more times than I can ... more
Yikes, you've had some really sucky things happen to you. You sound like you've always been really brave, though.
09/24/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Never had it happen to me
09/24/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Too funny....thought that was just in movies...
09/24/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never had this happen to me before.
09/24/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
Public nudity is legal in San Francisco so a flasher wouldn't surprise me.
(Note to self: Move to San Fran)
01/03/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
When I was a kid, some drunk guy was flashing along the side of a busy road near a retirement home.

This was before cell-phones got really popular, so my parents pulled into the next gas station and called the police. I don't think they were really bothered, and they had a laugh about it, but reported the guy for the sake of other people and probably his own safety.

My reaction was just, "lol a wee-wee". I have a little brother, so it wasn't exactly news to me.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Fun with Dick & Jane Fun with Dick & Jane
I was "drive by" flashed. A guy driving by slowly, opened his car door and he was jacking off. I just started laughing.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Driving to work this morning, as I pass the bus stop for the local high school, a young lady...alone at the bus stop, bends over..FAR over, revealing her either bare buttocks or perhaps she was wearing a tiny thong (I was driving, and TRYING to keep ... more
I might just be in a bad mood, but I can totally picture myself shooting her in the ass with a paintball gun if I were in your place.
01/03/2012
Contributor: karay123 karay123
When I was in high school, I was in my friend's car when she went into the convenience store. Some OLD guy walked up the the car, RIGHT up to my window, took out his junk and jiggled it in my face. Window was up (thank goodness) but I locked the door until my friend got back. Scared the heck out of me.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
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Originally posted by dv8
Public nudity is legal in San Francisco so a flasher wouldn't surprise me.
Even if it's legal, it may not be legal if there's a legitimate traffic hazard, or if underage-ness actually is involved.
01/03/2012