One of my customers just made my day.

One of my customers just made my day.

Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
There's this young guy who is 18 or 19 that comes in to my porn store all the time looking for things for him and his girlfriend. He's a real nice kid. Real polite and kinda shy.

He came in today looking for some more nice things for his girlfriend and himself. He asked me if he ordered something online if he could get it delivered here and I told him we did special orders and to just let me know what he was looking for. I asked him what it was to see if I could find anything for him while he was here and he said he wasn't sure and he'd probably come back later.

While I'm ringing him up, he says in a joking way "My girlfriend wants me to get her a strap-on to use on me. She won't shut up about it." Of course, I told him that it's actually a pretty common thing for hetero couples. "I just don't want to seem gay" he said. I assured him that it's actually very common and about 90% of the harnesses I sell are to straight guys and that there's a reason why 'gay guys' like that kind of stuff. It feels good, you know?

So he asked me if we had any, I showed him what we had. I helped him pick out a nice starter harness and a small anal dildo. I also suggested a nice lube for him and sent him on his way.

This makes me very happy. I feel like something I did to reassure him about this has helped to broaden his horizons. This is why I love my job.
09/27/2011
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toxie m toxie m
Aww, I love those days at work. It really is the best feeling when someone trust you enough to share something so personal, and you're able to reassure them that it's normal and not only that, you have the perfect thing they need for it. I get those warm fuzzies a lot when helping guys with strap-ons, much like your situation there, and also helping ladies buy their first vibrator. So exciting!
09/27/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
There's this young guy who is 18 or 19 that comes in to my porn store all the time looking for things for him and his girlfriend. He's a real nice kid. Real polite and kinda shy.

He came in today looking for some more nice things for ...
Yay! You probably made his day and hers too! It does feel good to help.
09/27/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
That's awesome
09/27/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I love when my clueless customers come in and somehow have their ideas about things changed by how I present them with information. I feel like much more than a cashier and more like a therapist. Haha.
09/27/2011
indiglo indiglo
It feels good to help people like that. And it's nice that he feels comfortable enough talking to you to say all that stuff! I'm sure you made him feel very relieved.
09/27/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
You should start doing sex education classes sponsored by your store. I know some of the bigger chains do things like that and then you could help lots of people in groups.

I was always thankful when I was younger and someone took the time to educate me on vibrators or lubes or what have you. I still am today if I go browsing and have questions. You probably made his day too!
09/27/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Good job, Miss D. You may have changed a couple's sex life for the better and changed a young man's idea of what is totally acceptable while increasing tolerance.

YAY!
09/27/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
There's this young guy who is 18 or 19 that comes in to my porn store all the time looking for things for him and his girlfriend. He's a real nice kid. Real polite and kinda shy.

He came in today looking for some more nice things for ...
Lmao awwwwww that's so cute but funny! I remember the hubby feeling like 100% gay when we started anal play but he got over it!
09/27/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
LOL! That's awesome! Way to help somebody explore their horizons.
09/27/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
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Originally posted by - Kira -
You should start doing sex education classes sponsored by your store. I know some of the bigger chains do things like that and then you could help lots of people in groups.

I was always thankful when I was younger and someone took the time to ...
That would actually be pretty fun. My boss and the store owner are blown away by how much I know and I'm planning to be a professional sex educator with this degree I'm working on.

I may just talk to them about it. It would help drive some business, maybe.
09/27/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
That would actually be pretty fun. My boss and the store owner are blown away by how much I know and I'm planning to be a professional sex educator with this degree I'm working on.

I may just talk to them about it. It would help drive ...
It would totally drive business. You could do Sex Toys 101 and then you'd be educating and selling at the same time. Everybody wins.
09/27/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Good job, Helping that young man. Always good to see open mindedness win the day and broadening someone's horizons.
09/27/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
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Originally posted by - Kira -
It would totally drive business. You could do Sex Toys 101 and then you'd be educating and selling at the same time. Everybody wins.
Kinda like a toy party, but with real knowledge and no overly crazy prices!
09/27/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Kinda like a toy party, but with real knowledge and no overly crazy prices!
Yeah and no junky toys. More about real education than "let's play games and giggle yayz!!!". I went to one of those once. It was so bad. You're right - the toys were crazy expensive and most of them were low quality. I did get some nice smelling lotion though...
09/27/2011
JessCee JessCee
Who is awesome???? MISS DEBAUCHERY, that's who!!!

You go girl!
09/27/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
Awesome. I wish more guys would realize that doing that doesn't make them gay!
09/27/2011
ss143 ss143
How awesome is that. Love it when someone can help another over come their misconceptions about a particular topic
09/27/2011
GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Congrats on opening up someone's mind! I also agree that something like that would help drive business to the store.
09/27/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
yay, thanks for sharing! i love stories like this. opening up people's horizons and ideas of what is taboo and what is hot, it's so great.
09/27/2011
meitman meitman
Awesome! Thanks for sharing!
09/27/2011
M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I love when my clueless customers come in and somehow have their ideas about things changed by how I present them with information. I feel like much more than a cashier and more like a therapist. Haha.
Love it. You're in a good position to do that ^.^
09/28/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
That is indeed a very good thing. However, something didn't add up for me, and I'd just like some clarification.

I assured him that it's actually very common and about 90% of the harnesses I sell are to straight guys and that there's a reason why 'gay guys' like that kind of stuff. It feels good, you know?

I could be reading this wrong, and it was supposed to read 'that's why gay guys like anal sex'. But I read it as 'that's why gay guys buy harnesses'. Which I thought kinda funny. Why would gay guys need strap ons, when they already have the necessary equipment?!
09/28/2011
muffles muffles
kudos!
09/28/2011
Beaners Beaners
Yay! Score one for the peggers! /victory
09/28/2011
emilia emilia
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
That's awesome
That is a wonderful story
09/28/2011
hjtee hjtee
How cute! I love that he's willing to try new things!
09/28/2011
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