So I’ve done anal but only with men that have a small penis. I’m a little scared to move onto bigger ANY SUGGESTIONS??
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Scared to try anal with average size cocks
Zulè
01/30/2018
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Go slow, use lots of lube, and communicate!
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Zulè
So I’ve done anal but only with men that have a small penis. I’m a little scared to move onto bigger ANY SUGGESTIONS??
If you are a bit too nervous to attempt that, try working your way up in size at home with anal trainer kits/buttplugs, or ease into larger sized toys.
And have fun!
01/31/2018
Going slow & lots of lube is key! You need to work your way into it, but remember if your not comfortable it isn’t going to make a pleasurable time either.
Trying starting with trainer kits on your own at home first to help you feel how it will be and so you can get more comfortable.
Trying starting with trainer kits on your own at home first to help you feel how it will be and so you can get more comfortable.
01/31/2018
When introducing my wife to anal sex I found tapered toys very helpful. The Tantus Champlette is particularly well suited because in addition to being tapered it has a smooth - not matte - finish silicone that slides easily with the proper amount of lube. As others have said - you can never have too much lube - or patience. For a while we also used a lube shooter to get more lube inside which will facilitate penetration and thrusting. We don't need that any more.
Vibrations also help. The Tantus B-Bomb is a modestly sized silicone butt plug - again with the smooth finish. Although I am slightly larger than the B-Bomb, once my wife is comfortable with me stroking the B-Bomb in-and-out, she can handle me (an average sized guy).
Also caution your guy to pause after entry to allow you to adjust - no thrusting until you give the ok - even then have him start with slow short thrusts.
Positions can also help - at the beginning my wife preferred missionary using a Liberator wedge pillow to align me with her. Others suggest the cowgirl position (girl on top) because you can control the speed, depth and pace of penetration. Others like spooning - find what works for you.
After a few months of regular anal sex the whole process gets a lot less difficult and complicated. You learn to relax and he learns how to do anal sex for you.
Going back to a the topic of patience - I always made it clear that my goal was to make sure that my wife was able to have an orgasm during anal sex. She was skeptical - but it did happen (it took a few months) - and now happens on a regular basis. This makes all the patience and trouble worth the effort.
Vibrations also help. The Tantus B-Bomb is a modestly sized silicone butt plug - again with the smooth finish. Although I am slightly larger than the B-Bomb, once my wife is comfortable with me stroking the B-Bomb in-and-out, she can handle me (an average sized guy).
Also caution your guy to pause after entry to allow you to adjust - no thrusting until you give the ok - even then have him start with slow short thrusts.
Positions can also help - at the beginning my wife preferred missionary using a Liberator wedge pillow to align me with her. Others suggest the cowgirl position (girl on top) because you can control the speed, depth and pace of penetration. Others like spooning - find what works for you.
After a few months of regular anal sex the whole process gets a lot less difficult and complicated. You learn to relax and he learns how to do anal sex for you.
Going back to a the topic of patience - I always made it clear that my goal was to make sure that my wife was able to have an orgasm during anal sex. She was skeptical - but it did happen (it took a few months) - and now happens on a regular basis. This makes all the patience and trouble worth the effort.
01/31/2018
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