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Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
It's not really a big deal, so far it's harmless but, I have someone who messaged me twice, comment on my reviews, and wall (which is all cool and fine with me) BUT they seem to be "interested" in me.
In all the messages and comments they seem to be trying to desperately get my attention and make it seem like they relate to me and we are very much alike.

So far I've just ignored it all, but I'm wondering should I do something? See, my main fear is that if I tell the person to leave me alone, they'll simply go and do something stupid like vote all my reviews down (and I work hard on those!) so I don't want that to happen. The ignoring tactic seems to be working so far, so...do I just stay on that? What do you think?

PS I have no clue what it is about me that attracts drama and issues on here. I wish it would just be a peaceful site for me.
07/29/2012
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Contributor: clp clp
I'd say that they may have an EF crush or are just being a little too aggressive in trying to make friends. If they say something that you have to draw the line at, do so. If it is harmless, ignoring will probably but the brakes on for them.
07/29/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Not knowing what the messages say, it's difficult to say what your approach should be. It could just be something harmless, like that this person wants to make a new friend.

I've had people message me, being overly excited about talking to me, and getting to know me. I've had people say "OMG you like this? ME TOO!!!", and pointing off little similarities that both that person and I share. I don't believe any of them have negative intentions at all.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Ignore and do not respond to any of that person's comments/messages, whoever it is will leave you alone after the craziness is over.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
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Originally posted by Rossie
Ignore and do not respond to any of that person's comments/messages, whoever it is will leave you alone after the craziness is over.
I agree with Rossie here.

If you are not interested in building even a friendship with them, but polite in replying but that's it. Don't offer more.

It could also just be that they don't realise they are coming across to you in this way (Maybe I don't know what your messages were), and could be one of those over friendly types.
07/29/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
Hard to say without seeing all the message
07/29/2012