i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & inappropriate for a wedding. why would someone wear them for that?" i saw a woman on the show who bought a knee length dress w/ a corset w/ a see through torso. she was having a rock-n-roll wedding & it seemed appropriate for the theme & her personality. she wanted something edgy & sexy, & it fit the bill perfectly (not to mention it looked great on her insane body). i told my roomie that, too. it seemed rather judgmental to me. no, i wouldn't wear that for my wedding, personally, but that doesn't mean i think it's trashy. if it's your day, you should be allowed to wear what you want. do you think this was a rather judgmental & slightly harsh thing to say?
i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy &
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i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & inappropriate for a wedding. why would someone wear them for that?" i saw a woman on the show who bought a knee length dress w/ a corset w/ a see through torso. she was having a rock-n-roll wedding & it seemed appropriate for the theme & her personality. she wanted something edgy & sexy, & it fit the bill perfectly (not to mention it looked great on her insane body). i told my roomie that, too. it seemed rather judgmental to me. no, i wouldn't wear that for my wedding, personally, but that doesn't mean i think it's trashy. if it's your day, you should be allowed to wear what you want. do you think this was a rather judgmental & slightly harsh thing to say?
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Screw what others think and do what makes you happy! So many people are quick to judge others, usually because of insecurities of there own.
i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy &
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i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & inappropriate for a wedding. why would someone wear them for that?" i saw a woman on the show who bought a knee length dress w/ a corset w/ a see through torso. she was having a rock-n-roll wedding & it seemed appropriate for the theme & her personality. she wanted something edgy & sexy, & it fit the bill perfectly (not to mention it looked great on her insane body). i told my roomie that, too. it seemed rather judgmental to me. no, i wouldn't wear that for my wedding, personally, but that doesn't mean i think it's trashy. if it's your day, you should be allowed to wear what you want. do you think this was a rather judgmental & slightly harsh thing to say?
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Your wedding is YOUR wedding, so I say do whatever the F you want. But keep in mind, that your wedding isn't so much for you as it is the people you're inviting (even though that statement contradicts yourself). All the food, the cake, the DJ, etc, it's not for just you and yours, it's also for those you care about. So, while it is harsh and it is judgmental, if you chose to surround yourself with people who are going to JUDGE you poorly, I would say it's probably better to re-evaluate who you're inviting.
I understand that some people are more traditional, and believe that a modest white dress should be worn... But, in all honesty, times have changed. People are more individual, unique. Not everyone WANTS to wear a white dress. Some people want to wear something that matches their personality better, or is more comfortable. Or, like the woman with the transparent corset dress (I saw that episode, and I cringed a bit too), wear what makes them feel special, happy, the focus of the event.
Its your day u should wear what ya want to! If u have a wild personality and dont want the traditional white gown....dnt wear one. I think I know what esp u are talkin bout and it did fit the girl to a tee with her cool rock n roll personality
I really think it should come down to what the bride wants to wear. If somebody wants to wear something modest and traditional at their wedding, good on them. If somebody wants to wear something edgier and "sexier" then good on them too.
I agree that the focus should be on the bride and groom and what they want. That being said, when I get married, I will probably wear ivory or something close. And it will be in a style that is form-fitting enough to make my husband-to-be look forward to that night, but still classy. I think that it's ok to consider your families and what will make them comfortable, but not to the point that you're betraying yourself.
While I agree that you should wear what makes you happy, I think you should also take into account the people who are going to be there. I'm pretty sure that your parental figures aren't going to want to see you in one of those bride-themed lingerie sets.
