The New Intimacy

Somebody you can't stand says something you totally agree with: honestly, do you admit it in a public way? :D

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Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I know I know, no matter who says it, when there is something we agree with should give credit to the person who says it, no matter how much we can't stand him/her... And indeed, such things aren't a question of "love&hate"...

But, poll being private, dare to admit it: when someone you hate says something you agree with, do you dare to "fess up" and tell "(wo)man, (s)he is damn right, I agree with him/her!" ^^
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I always do, because indeed, such things can't depend on my personal feelings about the person!
20  (57%)
I agree, I agree, but there is no way I ever admit it in front of anyone!
4  (11%)
It depends on the person/I tell that only to certain people!
9  (26%)
Other? :)
2  (6%)
Total votes: 35
Poll is closed
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Contributor: SkylarrStarr SkylarrStarr
I voted other, as for me it depends not only on the person, but also the situation...like if we are in public or private or the subject matter.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I would say they have a point, but not gush over it. I give credit where it's due, regardless of who said it.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I've had this happen. I didn't react at all cuz I refuse to admit that even for once in their miserable life, their amoeba-sized brain was able to generate something worth anything.
08/07/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't have anyone in my life I can't stand.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I say I agree if it is relevant to the discussion.

If you are talking about in a Forum sense... heck yes. I love making people take a step back and wonder what I am up too. Makes it fun.

But in reality, I give credit where credit is due; no matter who the credit is going for. My personal opinion and my pride can take back burners to other people.
08/07/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm a very honest person. If someone is right, they're right; regardless of my feelings toward them.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
I always tell the way I feel. I admit when I'm wrong.

There was a time I had hated this one person. I had no idea why because I had never really got to know them and it had erked me that I didn't like them at all. The way she did EVERYTHING made me not like her I had never judged a person like that (nor have done so after) I like to get to know a person before I pick if I like them or not but just the way she was erked me.

well anyways one day I was hit in the face (by accident) and she came to help me. Helping me up checking if I had a broken nose I realised oh she is actually a good kind person, and I had regreated the way I had felt about her untill she opened her mouth!
"See that! even with people like you I'm awesome!" in my mind I was like -Nope I was totally right... what a bitch- People like me= Skinny goth chick.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
usually I will admit they said something ok, but I usually follow it with a "but" because the context is rarely something I will agree with.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I don't dislike anyone so much that I would allow my hatred to blind me to what they're actually saying.
08/07/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
I'm a really friendly person. don't really dislike anyone
08/07/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
When someone's right, they're right.
Whether or not I like the person has nothing to do with that, so there's no harm in just admitting when you agree with them.
^_^
08/07/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Of course I would and I would congratulate them on getting something right LOL!
08/07/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
It depends. I haven't hated anyone enough yet for that to be an issue I think. But I'll start watching for that. I have been disagreeable just because I was angry and upset though.
08/07/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
I agree in public
08/07/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I tend not to bring up conflict in public.
08/07/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yea, though I usually point out my surprise that I'm agreeing with them
08/08/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
i tell it like it is
08/08/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I admit it. If something is factually correct, then it doesn't - or shouldn't - matter what the source is.
08/08/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I would admit it
08/09/2012
Contributor: sparksrebbecca sparksrebbecca
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
I know I know, no matter who says it, when there is something we agree with should give credit to the person who says it, no matter how much we can't stand him/her... And indeed, such things aren't a question of "love&hate"... ... more
I don't think it matters if I admit it or not. I will make it clear that I agree with said person, but that I still have some ill feelings towards that person.
10/10/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
It depends on just how much I hate that person!
10/10/2012
Contributor: glasskitten glasskitten
Quote:
Originally posted by SkylarrStarr
I voted other, as for me it depends not only on the person, but also the situation...like if we are in public or private or the subject matter.
Me too, and for the same reason.
10/10/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
I know I know, no matter who says it, when there is something we agree with should give credit to the person who says it, no matter how much we can't stand him/her... And indeed, such things aren't a question of "love&hate"... ... more
it depends if its something i really dont care about then i wont agree but if its something i need to put my input into and we r thinking the same way then i will agreee
10/10/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
I always do, because indeed, such things can't depend on my personal feelings about the person!
10/10/2012