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What is something unexpected that has changed about you in the last few years?

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Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
You never know what the future holds for you. Despite our efforts to control things & our certainty that something will never change, we are eventually proven wrong or thwarted. What is something unexpected that has changed about you in the last few years?

I have moved into my own home, which I never expected to happen. I also never expected to have my looks change so drastically in the last two years, eek!
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I didn't expect to EVER want children, nor get married again before 40. But I'm doing both ... married next year, and then start baby-making the year after.
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
my body sexually reawakened after my last partner was so useless in the sack for several years before I left his sorry A.
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Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
You never know what the future holds for you. Despite our efforts to control things & our certainty that something will never change, we are eventually proven wrong or thwarted. What is something unexpected that has changed about you in the last ... more
My self-esteem. Out of puberty, I thought it wouldn't change, but it did.
05/12/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I didn't expect to EVER want children, nor get married again before 40. But I'm doing both ... married next year, and then start baby-making the year after.
Congratulations on the new direction in your life with your soul mate! I have read many posts of your's about hr situation & watched it evolve. What a truly unexpected, but happy, turn of events for you! I wish you all the happiness I think a smart person like you deserves, (yes, just because I think you're smart, funny & needed something good to happen)!

@ Edeneve, YES! good for the bod, good for you & goodbye to his sorry ass! Woohoo!

@chicmichiw, you never know, do you, but in puberty, everything seems so certain!
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I now can do casual sex and might not want to get married.
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
I never expected life after college to be as difficult as it has been with trying to find work and a job.
05/13/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
I picked up a new hobby reviewing sex toys.
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Just a few years ago, my spouse of twenty one years died.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by RonLee
Just a few years ago, my spouse of twenty one years died.
Wow, RonLee, I'm so sorry to hear that! That's a long time to be married & quite an accomplishment, especially these days!

@ eri86, It just doesn't seem fair that it should be so difficult, does it? I know someone else who is also struggling with this issue & I know my brother had a heck of a time, too. It's like you expect to just continue on & all they want is experience & you can't even get any! How are you supposed to combat that?!

@mpfm, good one! Especially surprising if you think about our ages! You are positively scandalous! Isn't it fun?!
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm married and expecting a baby. I didn't think either would happen so early.
05/13/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
I'm married and expecting a baby. I didn't think either would happen so early.
Congratulations!
05/13/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I am finally at peace with and am learning who I have evolved into as a person with brain damage and ADD from an accident. I still get frustrated and want 'me' back--but I have really been working hard to get over it and accept the new person in my old place....

I moved my whole retail store/production shop--by myself!!! I had help for one day, glad I used that one the really heavy things!! My landlord lost his lease for the building--so I had to move into another one. I found a good one and hope this will eventually get organized again!!!!!!!
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Contributor: GONE! GONE!
I've become more impulsive. A lot more impulsive. It's worked out well though, cuz' I've done things I wouldn't have done for most of my life and met more people this way.
05/13/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
My self-esteem. Out of puberty, I thought it wouldn't change, but it did.
Yea! I feel way more confident about my body now, where as before I was self concious but never showed it.
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