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What are your thoughts on the term, "blown out?"

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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
do men really complain about a loose vagina? my wife just mentioned something about wondering if assholes get blown out like vaginas...and i wondered, do vaginas really get blown out from sex? i mean, i can imagine that having children might cause some significant stretching, and cause a women to feel a little insecure about the size or elasticity of things down there...but, i wouldn't think that a dick would cause such a thing. i've never had sex with someone and thought for a second that "this pussy is blown out." i'm starting to think that this might be another of those horrible things that people say about women to make them feel dirty for having sex.

also, i have some understanding that as a women gets older there is some...settling that occurs in that area. this, also, seems not what a person would mean if they used the turm "blown out." so, is this something that really happens to women from having lots of sex, or just another of those ways to frighten a girl away from being sexual?
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
..." i'm starting to think that this might be another of those horrible things that people say about women to make them feel dirty for having sex."...

You got it! Vaginas do not get blown out. There are so many really strong muscles down there, and they are meant to be able to stretch to accommodate babies, and then return to normal. If a woman can give birth to an 8lb (or bigger) baby and return to normal, a penis isn't going to stretch her out.

The vagina is not normally open anyway. It's natural, day to day state is to be closed and very small. It's not until arousal starts to happen that the vagina begins to prepare itself for penetration.

Not to say a vagina can't be damaged by extreme trauma, or something like that. But having lots of sex won't stretch it out. In fact, it's more likely to keep vaginal tone!

Have your wife take a look at this Kinsey Confidential article on the topic: link
02/04/2013