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What is your main weapon when you flirt with a guy for the purpose of seduction?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Do you bat your eyelashes, bite your lip, suck on something, smile sexily, walk extra sexy, unbutton one ore more buttons on your blouse or maybe something totally different. Either way, I'd love to know what your main go to flirt move is when you're trying to seduce a guy?

And yes, that guy can be your husband, boyfriend, acquaintance or a sexy stranger you want to know better.

And not to offend and leave anyone out, I'd love to hear what your main flirt move is when trying to seduce a member of the same sex?

If you're bisexual, is your main flirt move the same for a guy and a girl or are they different?
04/04/2013
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
When I like a guy... I avoid him

It's sad I know. I'm not even sure why.
04/04/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I've often wondered what my "tell" is when it comes to how interested I am in someone...but judging by the amount of hateful and spiteful looks I receive from women simply for existing, I'm willing to bet I have more than few.


Honestly, I'm a dainty chick who thinks, acts, and speaks like a guy would on most occasions. I smile a lot and it's really easy for me to blush and all of those things are considered flirtatious.

When it comes to the womens, no games. I'm just blunt: "wanna fuck?".
04/04/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
never thought about it. I guess I do the eyes & smile thing.
04/04/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you bat your eyelashes, bite your lip, suck on something, smile sexily, walk extra sexy, unbutton one ore more buttons on your blouse or maybe something totally different. Either way, I'd love to know what your main go to flirt move is when ... more
I tend to try to catch guys off-guard, surprising them with the kinds of bluntly sexual questions that nobody ever really asks. I like seeing men just a little vulnerable before I top them in bed.

When I flirt with women, though, I'm much more delicate. I tend to be full of compliments and eye-contact and tend to have my antennae on a sensitive setting to see how they react to teasing. I don't believe that women are inherently more sensitive than men; I just think our society treats women differently, which means they tend to react differently.
04/04/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I am a very female looking tomboy---so good conversation, I am always smiling and friendly. I think they liked the lack of games. I go talk to the guy as if he were a friend....and it goes from there. Of course this was back in my single days...many many years ago, lol!!!
04/04/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I just be myself. I'm naturally talkative and outgoing. I approach whoever I am interested in and introduce myself.
04/04/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Mine would be my eyes and smiling. Everyone loves my smile. It sure comes in handy.
04/04/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Never overtly did, although - now that I think about it - my manners were probably mistaken for flirting, which may be why guys got disgusted looks and took leave of me as soon as they could. *eyeroll*

With C, all I have to do is start talking Geek. Oh, and wearing something clingy on my lower half (he's an ass-man).
04/04/2013
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It's always fun to make eye contact with my husband and lick an ice cream cone or suck on a popsicle - that works amazingly well
04/04/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Do you bat your eyelashes, bite your lip, suck on something, smile sexily, walk extra sexy, unbutton one ore more buttons on your blouse or maybe something totally different. Either way, I'd love to know what your main go to flirt move is when ... more
Eyes and chest
04/06/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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Compliment them, keep good eye contact and make little suggestive comments.
06/16/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I can be very charming, or sarcastic & witty, they seem to be equally successful. I guess I must have a good sense of when to apply whichever to my best advantage.
06/17/2013