Where is your line with cheating?

Where is your line with cheating?

misterazor misterazor
when do you consider really to have been cheated on? i might tell my wife that i would count hee kissing another as cheating...but, in reality, i want her to do what makes her happy, even if that means another person. but i don't know if i could tell her that...she might be confused and upset by it. anyway, where is your line? if you have a spoken line, and an actual line that is different, please expand on that.
12/28/2012
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js250 js250
Bluntly--I told my hubby when we got together that if you kiss her you might as well fuck her. That is my cheating line....to me if you want to kiss, there are issues that pertain to fidelity and commitment.
12/28/2012
The Vixen The Vixen
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Originally posted by js250
Bluntly--I told my hubby when we got together that if you kiss her you might as well fuck her. That is my cheating line....to me if you want to kiss, there are issues that pertain to fidelity and commitment.
I totally agree with this. If he's entertaining thoughts of pursuing someone else that's a problem. For example, if my husband wanted to go out and cheat on me but the girl he was interested in turned him down and he didn't actually get to do anything, he still cheated on me in his heart and that's just as damaging to a committed relationship. That's my thought anyways.
12/28/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
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Originally posted by js250
Bluntly--I told my hubby when we got together that if you kiss her you might as well fuck her. That is my cheating line....to me if you want to kiss, there are issues that pertain to fidelity and commitment.
I agree with you too. Kissing can lead to more very quickly.
12/28/2012
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Same here, would break my heart if my girlfriend kissed another man, just saying.
12/28/2012
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
My guy and I have a pretty open relationship since we're long distance, so for us it's only cheating of the other person isn't aware of the full situation or if feelings develop with the new person.
12/28/2012
indiglo indiglo
We've talked about this together. And while it may sound crazy, neither of us is comfortable even flirting with someone else, or making an extremely close friendship with someone of the opposite sex. It can be a fine line, so we have chosen to stay as far away from it as we can.

I would definitely consider it cheating to kiss someone else. So since that would be cheating, we have both decided not to even do the sort of things that would lead up to wanting to kiss someone else. If that makes sense.

Basically, to me, paying the kind of attention to someone else that we would normally pay to each other is just not ok. It can start you down a path where the line gets blurrier and blurrier. Not to say we don't talk to members of the opposite sex, or have friends, it's just... different. We reserve our main focus of attention for each other. But that's a choice we've made, and your mileage may vary!
12/28/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
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Originally posted by js250
Bluntly--I told my hubby when we got together that if you kiss her you might as well fuck her. That is my cheating line....to me if you want to kiss, there are issues that pertain to fidelity and commitment.
I'm in total agreement!
12/29/2012
Bleu Bleu
Kissing is really intimate so I draw my line there. If he is willing to kiss her then he is willing to do more.
12/29/2012
Pink Lily Pink Lily
I think it's possible to have emotional cheating, and I would feel violated if my long term partner cheated like that on me. I actually felt violated when my ex told me he failed to cheat on me with another girl.
12/29/2012
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by The Vixen
I totally agree with this. If he's entertaining thoughts of pursuing someone else that's a problem. For example, if my husband wanted to go out and cheat on me but the girl he was interested in turned him down and he didn't actually get ...
I agree w/ both of you.
12/29/2012
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