do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
Women, do you have a "friend" that your man is not aware of and have no intentions of telling him about?
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Used to but ended the friendship because it seemed really toxic for the relationship. If you have to hide a friend from your SO, it just makes it so you're basically lying and that alone can damage a relationship.
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No. I wouldn't hide a friendship even if my partner didn't like them.
Originally posted by
misterazor
do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
01/15/2013
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Very well stated. That's my take on it as well.
Originally posted by
Bleu
Used to but ended the friendship because it seemed really toxic for the relationship. If you have to hide a friend from your SO, it just makes it so you're basically lying and that alone can damage a relationship.
I have no secret friends, though my man doesn't necessarily know every single person I spend time with personally, he knows their names and their basic info.
01/15/2013
No I didn't. I did have a couple relatives that I was closer to than he assumed, though--just in case I needed a place to go when it ended.
01/15/2013
No I don't.
01/15/2013
No I don't. I don't hide things from my husband especially things that would ruin us.
01/15/2013
No. I don't sneak around or hide anything from my partner.
01/15/2013
Nope. Husband and I are very close and I wouldn't hide anything.
01/15/2013
Nope. We've played those games and it's definitely a game.
01/15/2013
Cat E.
Yes.
01/15/2013
Yes.
01/15/2013
No. I don't do that to my husband. He knows all my friends inside and out, and has even had great conversations with them XD. If one of my exes contacted me then I would tell my husband. I don't hide a thing from that man. Well, cept when I'm planning something. That's the only thing I ever hide from him.
01/15/2013
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When I was in a relationship I had a few of those friends, my boyfriend was really jealous so I didn't feel the need to start arguments over nothing
Originally posted by
misterazor
do you have a secret friend? someone you are not having an affair with, but you know that your man might be threatened by because, internally, you kinda want the guy and are worried that it would be obvious?
01/15/2013
I keep no secrets. I'd rather break up than lie behind my partner's back.
eta: I'm not an angel either. I *do* have fantasies about men, but they stay in my head. I would never cheat.
eta: I'm not an angel either. I *do* have fantasies about men, but they stay in my head. I would never cheat.
01/17/2013
Nah. No reason to. There are people I'm friends with that he hasn't met, but no 'secret' friends. I'm just an awesome girlfriend.
01/17/2013
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