Your vagina is a muscle, while over the years it will lose elasticity (especially if you've gone through childbirth) it will regain it's shape. Don't stop yourself from using larger toys because you feel as if you're becoming loose because it's just not so... especially if you're doing your kegels. less

I don't use larger toys a lot, but to the best of my knowledge, the vagina--being a muscle and all that jazz--will tighten up with regular exercise. I have sex regularly and only do kegels during PIV for my partner's pleasure, and I've never had any "loosening." less

Your vagina is a muscle, while over the years it will lose elasticity (especially if you've gone through childbirth) it will regain it's shape. Don't stop yourself from using larger toys because you feel as if you're becoming loose because it's just not so... especially if you're doing your kegels. less

Really? I figured if larger toys went in easier then my partner would go in easier too... thus having less resistance and getting less out of it. At the same time, most of the larger toys I have are pains to clean, lol. But I guess this will ease my fears about some of them. less

My husband's penis is a pretty average girth of 1 1/2 inches diameter. The dildo I use the most is the Lone Star, and it is 1 7/8 inches in diameter. My husband has noticed a difference at all, and still complains I squeeze too tightly. Use whatever pleases you most, the vagina is an amazing organ and adapts very quickly less

The vagina will temporarily change shape to accommodate virtually any standard toy or penis (with proper preparation) as well as the head and body of an infant during childbirth.

However, it doesn't "stretch out of shape" from any of the above. The muscles and tissue are CLOSED, the sides touch, when the vagina is at rest, whether you are a 14 year old virgin or a 50 year old multi-para (a woman who has had many children) who likes the "Great American Challenge" dildo and has sex twice a day.

Does your mouth "Stretch out of shape" because sometimes you open it wide to take a bite out of a big burger, or give head to a large man? Absolutely not. Neither does your vagina.

Yes, the vagina can certainly lose TONE from disuse, or from not Kegaling and keeping it in shape after having kids etc. but this is not the same as "stretching." It is more the muscles going slack, not "widening" in any way. It can be remedied, and some women have natural strong tone and don't go slack even with age and childbirth. Nobody has a permanently stretched vagina....what the guys said above about feeling a little looser for a short period of time (minutes actually) after a large toy has been used is common, but the tissue snaps right back into shape after a short period of time.

Use whatever size vibrator or dildo you feel comfortable with, and don't be afraid of the Biggies, if that's what you like, because they will do absolutely NO permanent change to your sex organs. less

The vagina will temporarily change shape to accommodate virtually any standard toy or penis (with proper preparation) as well as the head and body of an infant during childbirth.

However, it doesn't "stretch out of shape" from any of the above. The muscles and tissue are CLOSED, the sides touch, when the vagina is at rest, whether you are a 14 year old virgin or a 50 year old multi-para (a woman who has had many children) who likes the "Great American Challenge" dildo and has sex twice a day.

Does your mouth "Stretch out of shape" because sometimes you open it wide to take a bite out of a big burger, or give head to a large man? Absolutely not. Neither does your vagina.

Yes, the vagina can certainly lose TONE from disuse, or from not Kegaling and keeping it in shape after having kids etc. but this is not the same as "stretching." It is more the muscles going slack, not "widening" in any way. It can be remedied, and some women have natural strong tone and don't go slack even with age and childbirth. Nobody has a permanently stretched vagina....what the guys said above about feeling a little looser for a short period of time (minutes actually) after a large toy has been used is common, but the tissue snaps right back into shape after a short period of time.

Use whatever size vibrator or dildo you feel comfortable with, and don't be afraid of the Biggies, if that's what you like, because they will do absolutely NO permanent change to your sex organs. less

I was kinda wondering other's opinions on this, so I figured it'd go here <3So, when I first got into toys I didn't have much of a concept of size and how big was too big. I had one larger vibrator, that ended up breaking (It was one of the classical duets series, air got pushed out of the sleeve and it like 'deflated' and I couldnt pull it off to fix it). I recently replaced that vibrator along with buying some others from the series, but since I hadn't used it in so long and since I'd grown accustomed to smaller toys, they're too big for me now. It's not that it -wont- fit. It would if I wanted it to.It's just that whenever I use large toys I'm worried about getting loose and having my partner get less enjoyment from when we have -real- sex. I suppose I was wondering if the same things went through anyone elses mind when choosing what toy they should use for their personal time.And yes, I do kegels, and if I use something large once or twice, within a few days I will be back to how tight I normally am, but if I make it routine, I'll notice that I get generally looser until I stop using it and give myself time to readjust. So yeah... I was just wondering. less