With the departure of Stormy and the little blowup skimish that ensued, some EF members were turned off. One of the more active members now missing are the Bignufs.

Perhaps if some of the members give the Bignufs a shoutout to return they will.

The forum needs more conversation and certainly the Bignufs were a big part of daily/weekly postings.

Please join me in asking for the return of the Bignufs and others that are standing on the sidelines.

Can I please get someone to second the motion ? less

Aw, we just noticed this lovely post. THANK YOU. How sweet. We were never really "gone", but didn't want to be embroiled in the negative words and hurtful drama we saw taking place here. We enjoyed EF for our "positive sexual energy" shopping, and the fun, intellectually stimulating and uniquely open Forum. When reading blogs starts to be another version of the Jerry Springer show or some horrible reality TV drama...well, sorry, you can count us out. We enjoy the open, free speaking, pleasant and fun company that so many nice people here were sharing, such as Oriental Husband and Wife, and certainly do hope that "spirit" returns. We are still around, and hope others continue to "stay and play" as well as bringing in new members, but only time will tell where this really goes or if it was a one time "amazing moment" online. Thank you all, however, for the nice words and even noticing we were here! less

Aw, we just noticed this lovely post. THANK YOU. How sweet. We were never really "gone", but didn't want to be embroiled in the negative words and hurtful drama we saw taking place here. We enjoyed EF for our "positive sexual energy" shopping, and the fun, intellectually stimulating and uniquely open Forum. When reading blogs starts to be another version of the Jerry Springer show or some horrible reality TV drama...well, sorry, you can count us out. We enjoy the open, free speaking, pleasant and fun company that so many nice people here were sharing, such as Oriental Husband and Wife, and certainly do hope that "spirit" returns. We are still around, and hope others continue to "stay and play" as well as bringing in new members, but only time will tell where this really goes or if it was a one time "amazing moment" online. Thank you all, however, for the nice words and even noticing we were here! less

You will notice that many of the more experienced people do not get embroiled in the drama and choose to wait it out That's what you noticed, that's all. I suspect there are still old members who come in to look around for a while and don't post. Hopefully. we can lure some of them to post because I would love for you and the other newer people to get to meet the characters! We had some of the most entertaining and knowledgeable people, you would not believe how fun this place was! But for now, we have the opportunity to make this place be like we want, right? I know js250 said that and I think with no moderator, let's just self-police as I think we do just fine. I am trying to re-do some of my older posts so we can get new answers to them and spur more interaction! You would be surprised what I learned about so many people; it was lots of fun because everyone was so candid! less

With the departure of Stormy and the little blowup skimish that ensued, some EF members were turned off. One of the more active members now missing are the Bignufs.

Perhaps if some of the members give the Bignufs a shoutout to return they will.

The forum needs more conversation and certainly the Bignufs were a big part of daily/weekly postings.

Please join me in asking for the return of the Bignufs and others that are standing on the sidelines.

Can I please get someone to second the motion ? less