this community has given me a place free from judgement where I can express myself freely and ask questions and get insight into things we "aren't supposed to" talk about outside of places like this.

I want to know what other have gotten from the community? What about being here makes something easier for you? Or what have you taken away from the community that has benefited you? less

a VAST knowledge of a subject i previously hadn't a clue about - i educate my friends like a BOSS on materials, shapes, safety, etc. and they're all wowed by the majesty of my sex toy wisdom.

a creative outlet that is sexually healthy

a healthier sex life

a greater sense of sexual freedom

a kinship with people i've never met, only shared typeface characters with and a common interest for all things sexy

an open mind in regards to fetishes

better exposure to transgenderism

better exposure to sexually charged political issues, such as slut-shaming

a sense of accomplishment.

a sense of pride in regards to my sexual status, my 'number' of partners as opposed to shame

an interest in and following of polyamory

alot of really hot orgasms. less

Most of the above for me as well.

Along with:
Greater sexual openness with my husband.
Ability to better verbalize my sexual fantasies.
Amazing friends and people.
New sexual experiences via toys I would NEVER have tried on my own.
The realization that I am not a freak or extreme pervert for being extremely sexual, liking porn and playing with toys.
Other women are just as into sex and toys as I am.

A feeling of knowing I belong. I am not alone. A sense of family!!!!!!!!!111 less