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Would you pay a prostitute $100 for a cuddle?

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Contributor: Penguin Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you think about the article?

Answer the poll as if you use prositutes
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
If I used a prostitute, it would only be for straight up proper fuck
34
" ...oral sex
10
" Something less sexual like cuddling
10
Never would I pay a prositute to do anything other than oral or sex
16
I refuse to asnwer this question
63
Total votes: 133 (116 voters)
Poll is closed
10/06/2010
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Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
You left off 'other' If I DID use prostitutes, I doubt I'd use them to cuddle, but I think a lot of people are using them for companionship, not just sex, and that's a part of it. If I used a prostitute, it would probably be to try out new weird freaky stuff when I didn't have a partner to try it with.
10/06/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I would pay someone for a nice romantic night. Be my sit-in partner.

I've thought of doing this on some occasions, actually, but do not have the money to do it. HAHA!
10/06/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I would never pay a prostitue for anything...so that rules out anything for me. I ain't gonna look down anyone who has though.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
prostitutes are not my thing.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I've been a sex worker and it happens more than you'd expect. Guys really want to be listened to and adored without all the nagging and fighting and responsibility that comes with it. The guys who just wanted to talk or lightly touch loved to fall asleep with me in their arms. It was almost sweet, but mostly just really sad.
10/07/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I wonder if it would cost more to cuddle after a proper straight-up fuck? hehe
10/12/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
No way. That's not going to happen. I can't even cuddle with my wife more than a few minutes. It just gets too hot!
10/12/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
I wonder if it would cost more to cuddle after a proper straight-up fuck? hehe
Well, if you're not a street walker you pay by time, not acts. Hahah that shits for crackwhores!
10/17/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I would pay a prostitute $100 to go the fuck away. That's pretty much it
10/20/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you ... more
The only time I paid a prostitute would be for nothing. I would never use a prostitute. I think it's downgrading yourself and I would rather rescue her and get her another job any day. I might buy her and set her free, especially if she was held against her will.
11/03/2010
Contributor: CleverKitty CleverKitty
Not all sex workers want to be "set free" Sarah. While human trafficking is a serious problem there are a large number of women who do choose to engage in sex work and their needs are different and complex.

I won't get into legalization vs decriminiztion cause that would be a whole other thread.

I would probably never pay for sexual services because I can get them easily for free but I'd be much more likely to pay for cuddling then sex. I can give myself orgasms but not a good cuddle.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
I really hated the tone of that article - the author seems like a smarmy, privileged little douchebag, and I don't like where this thread is going. :/
11/03/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you ... more
If I paid to have sex with a prostitute I would probably be fulfilling a sexual fantasy. Since my fantasies are dark, twisted and probably illegal in most places I doubt I will ever decide to use the services of a sex worker. Now if one of the guys was wanting to contract a sex worker then it would more than likely be for straight up sex, probably some oral and cost way more than $100! My actual tame fantasies involve having sex with at least two guys, which I don't need to pay for, beyond the wages of sin
On the whole I have no problem with anyone selling their services so long as they are clean and healthy...hell I demand the same thing from anyone selling me something in a store!
11/03/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I've been a sex worker and it happens more than you'd expect. Guys really want to be listened to and adored without all the nagging and fighting and responsibility that comes with it. The guys who just wanted to talk or lightly touch loved to ... more
I can imagine it is rather touchingly sad. Still I have had playmates of Sigel tell me that sometimes when I am out of town he will come over just for that special little attention rather than full on sex. He wants someone to listen to his day, give them a little pleasure and then have them stroke his hair or something while he relaxes and unwinds. The things I do for him when he needs it. I think if it weren't such an awful taboo to have a professional sex worker a lot more men would appreciate the gentle side of the job and maybe it wouldn't be such a sad thing.
I had a friend who was a male sex worker and he said that often when conventions come into town he would be called by lady business women to just sleep with them in bed...he is a very large built man and it helped them get a good night's rest just knowing he was there. I think this might play into some men's desire to have a warm body in bed while they sleep as well. We are a pack animal, us humans so it makes sense.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
I wonder if it would cost more to cuddle after a proper straight-up fuck? hehe
Doubt it, most sex workers are fine with a bit of cuddling after the slap and tickle
11/03/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
I really hated the tone of that article - the author seems like a smarmy, privileged little douchebag, and I don't like where this thread is going. :/
I have to agree both with CleverKitty and Victoria. I stopped reading the article early on but I'm surprised by the tone of the thread.

Sex work has been a trade for as long as we have written history. Not all women and men in the sex trade are there because they have nothing else. Not all are there because they are forced to be. While it's admirable that you would want to help an 'unfortunate' woman, and I support your desire to do so, it is important that you realize that there are some highly intelligent business men and women who trade their sexual skills for profit, quite happily.

Would I make use of a person's offer if I could see they are desperate, no ofcourse not! What I won't do is perpetuate the myth that all prostitutes and other sex workers are being sold, held captive or sleezy. In the end you get what you pay for, I guess you could say.

I, too have never paid for sexual services because I have no lack of partners or lack of people willing to play with my fantasies, but Sigel has! I met the sex worker whom he paid and she is actually a very good friend of ours. She offers a service and he has made use of it. She pays me for the crafts I make her...I see no difference.
11/03/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I have no need for a prostitute... dont get me wrong...I am sooo not against prostitution... but... *shrugs* Even if I didnt have Boyfriend...I am sure I could find someone to cuddle (and more) with.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Hypothetically, if I were paying someone, it'd be for sex. I can get cuddles.
11/29/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
I'm not sure how I feel about this topic over all, but I feel bad for the girl Toni in the article.
12/03/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
prostitutes are very much not my thing.... but i know a few of them and know that some are really into the cuddling and would love if someone would pay them for that.
12/10/2010
Contributor: mariah mariah
wow he is cute... i would pay HIM to cuddle with me
12/10/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
The only time I paid a prostitute would be for nothing. I would never use a prostitute. I think it's downgrading yourself and I would rather rescue her and get her another job any day. I might buy her and set her free, especially if she was held ... more
Way to set women back a couple of hundred years. And good luck finding her a job that affords the income prostitution does.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you ... more
I wanted to vote that I wouldn't use a prostitute at all. But it was not an option.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Don Juan Don Juan
Quote:
Originally posted by Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you ... more
Ahhhh.... this thread was just - unexpected.

I have used prostitutes. For a long time. Won't go into the details, but no, it's not because I can't get laid, am totally unattractive, or have a mental problem.

So - would I pay a prostitute for a cuddle? No. But I would (and have) paid a prostitute for what I would describe as "non-sexual intimacy", meaning talk, cuddle, kissing and companionship.

This is the second time I am amazed by the close-minded opinions of readers of what I consider to be a sex-positive, open-minded forum. Intimacy is more than just the act of fucking, and sometimes, we humans have a need for intimacy, even if it is paid; and if that is what is available to you, it is just what you need, and is not criminal (I live in Australia, where sex work is decriminalised and regulated), why should we have a problem with that?

The biggest issue men would face with this idea is that of value for money - Is my need for non-sexual intimacy worth $100 or more? For most men the answer will be NO; and *that* is the real reason we won't pay $100 for a cuddle.
02/03/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I am against prostitution, but omg this topic is kind of cute.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
Quote:
Originally posted by Penguin
That's what this guy did...link

To be honest, I'm sure he is not the only one. I used a know a guy who'd pay girls to do the weirdest of things and they were only sexual to him. Step on bubble wrap for instance.

What do you ... more
The only applicable answer was refusing to answer? How about "I would never consider using a prostitute".. that's the most likely scenario for me
02/03/2011
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
guy seems like a dick
02/03/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
IT would not be worth it at all.
04/09/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
The only thing I'd pay a prostitute to do is NOT touch me! Lol. I thought that post was very... what's the word? Sad, in a way? At first when it said something along the lines of "They had anything you could want." After talking about them having all different sizes and such. When I read that part I thought wow, that's makes the women sound like candy bars in a gas station. You can have any kind you want. Nuts, no nuts, white chocolate, dark chocolate, etc. but then I saw where he was saying that they wanted to be loved and it made me feel bad for them even more! That's funny about the bubble wrap! Hee hee

I did know a guy who would pay women in drugs just to touch their feet! He would always stare at my feet and say they were pretty, but I thought nothing of it until he came to my house and didn't even knock then jerked up my foot and tried rubbing himself with it! I freaked out I'd never known the guy very well. Needless to say, he won't be coming near me again! Lol. He didn't just have a foot fetish, it was more like a foot rape fetish! As bad as I hate that word, that's the only way to describe that man! Lol
04/14/2011