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Can a hookup turn into a relationship?

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Contributor: AzealiaB AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
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Yes, definitely
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85  (81%)
Not likely, but it's possible
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19  (18%)
Probably not
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1  (1%)
Total votes: 105
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12/16/2012
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Contributor: Danneh Danneh
A hookup turned into an almost year long relationship for me- that only ended because he transferred schools. It may not happen often- but it can happen. I know a few other people who have turned hookups into relationships.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I've never had it happen, but I think it could definitely be a possibility!
12/16/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I have know it to happen to a friend of mine.
12/16/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Yes it can.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
Yes.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Sure it can, if everything works out.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Geography Geography
Of course! I once hooked up with a guy for a week straight on a vacation and thought I would never see him again. As soon as we got home (to the same city) we started dating. It was a great relationship.
12/16/2012
Contributor: pussy licker pussy licker
Yes it can.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
Yes of course
12/16/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Oh definitely, why not?
12/16/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
16 years later--we are still married.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Molly Carter Molly Carter
My hubby and I were roommates, and started to become fuck buddies. Now, we've been together over ten years, and married for seven and a half!
12/16/2012
Contributor: Pandwhora Pandwhora
for sure.
12/16/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's rare, but I've seen it happen before. It gets easier if you have other connections as well
12/16/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
It worked out that way for me, but I don't think it's the norm. I would say it's more of the exception than the rule.
12/17/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I don't think it is highly probable, but it is definitely possible.
12/17/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
It all depends on the situation.
12/17/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Ours did. 2-1/2 years and counting...
12/17/2012
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I'm sure it can but it is unlikely.
12/17/2012
Contributor: invisiblehat invisiblehat
I think it could happen.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
It completely depends on the people who are hooking up Plenty of "traditional" relationships begin because of physical attraction and then become stabilized by other aspects-- shared interests, mental attraction, etc. I feel like hookups that turn into something more aren't that different; it's just that the expectation of relationship-ness isn't there at the beginning.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
It could, but I don't see it happening often.
12/17/2012
Contributor: satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
I have to say I'm in a relationship that was suppose to be a booty call. We have been together almost a year and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. So, yes it is possible.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
Yes. I have seen it happen.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes, it's happened to me.
12/17/2012
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Yes of course it can!
12/17/2012
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Definitely! Has happened several times for me!
12/17/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Yup.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
of course
12/18/2012