The New Intimacy

What do you value more in your date, that they are a good LOVER or a good FREIND?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Sure, then CAN be both, but which factor rates HIGHER in your "date critical" equation???
03/04/2012
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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Friend for me. There is more to a relationship than sex for me, and I've noticed that most of the relationships that focus mostly on sex seem to fall apart when there's any kind of serious issue. For me, sex won't comfort me after a fight with a friend, or after the death of a loved one, or after a bunch of other things that I would rather talk over with my best friend, who also happens to be my lover.
03/05/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
I agree completely Sam...even though sex plays a huge factor for me its not everything.Having your partner be your best friend is important to make it work
03/10/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Friend for me. There is more to a relationship than sex for me, and I've noticed that most of the relationships that focus mostly on sex seem to fall apart when there's any kind of serious issue. For me, sex won't comfort me after a ... more
Ditto to this for me too. There are times when we can't have sex - one of us is ill, injured, out of town, etc - and our friendship is extra important during those times!
03/10/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Definitely friend! Also, I find it really hard to imagine someone being a good lover for me but not also being a good friend. The things I value in sex partners are very deeply tied to what qualities are important to me in friends.
05/28/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Sure, then CAN be both, but which factor rates HIGHER in your "date critical" equation???
Lover for me
05/28/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I couldn't stand to be dating someone who wasn't good friend material.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Envy Envy
Friend. That way, if things go south and the relationship doesn't work out to something we both can be happy with, we can agree to still be really good friends after it all. It may sting a little, but we can survive and grow from it and still have love and respect for each other.
05/29/2012
Contributor: britanny0620 britanny0620
Friend, no matter how good the sex is, I still need someone I can talk to. Life isn't all about sex (no matter how much I sometimes think it is) and I need other things to be able to maintain a relationship.
05/29/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Friend, most of your time together won't be sex.
05/29/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
A friend for me because I have to have something in common with them besides sex because the majority of the day's not going to be sex.
05/29/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
I'd prefer a good friend, they'll be there when you need them most. Sex is great and all but not as important as emotional reliability
12/11/2012