Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when we need to get things done.
                    
                    
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                        Well no, not really, but that's a good idea you have. I really like it! What a nice way to bond too -- masturbating together rather than doing it each privately. Glad you shared this.
                        
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when we need to get things done.
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                        Oh YEAH.  
                        
                        
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                        Try it while kissing the entire time.
                        
                        
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                        I find it kind of odd too because it seems just like sex. But hey, as long as it works for you guys.
                        
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when we need to get things done.
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                        We sometimes do. I really love it. 
I really would love the imagination that one partner ist blindfolded and masturbates and the other one watches.
Or mutual masturbation is also great.
                        
                        I really would love the imagination that one partner ist blindfolded and masturbates and the other one watches.
Or mutual masturbation is also great.
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                        We do this frequently as an addition to our sex lives. It adds a closeness to masturbate togehter that sometimes can be missing from just sex. After all--this is a personal, taboo activity that is generally not shared or talked about and to watch each other can really open up doors of security and trust in a relationship.
                        
                        
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                        we do this during her period
                        
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when
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                                                    Sometimes, me and my girlfriend never really feel like having sex and just end up masturbating together. I always thought it was strange, but it's kind of nice. Intimate, yet either of us can get up to when we want to and we can cut it off when we need to get things done.
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                        All the time.
                        
                        
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                        We don't. Our paradigm is that I am better at making her feel good than she is - and likewise, she's better at making me feel good than I am.
We kiddingly call it 'job security'!
                        
                        We kiddingly call it 'job security'!
02/07/2013
			        
			        
                
                        my partner and i used to do this a lot before we started to have sex. it was a fun intimate activity i enjoyed a lot specially when we would go for pleasuring ourselves to the other person to finish.
                        
                        
                        02/07/2013
			        
			        
                
                        No, we can never stop at that level.  I did before with a past boyfriend (before I started having sex), but in the relationship I have now, there is no stopping at masturbation.
                        
                        
                        02/07/2013
			        
			        
                
                        We've definitely done this, mostly while I'm on my period but not always
                        
                        
                        04/19/2013
			        
			        
                
                        No, we prefer to pleasure each other. If we don't have sex then we usually do oral or a handjob/ fingering.
                        
                        
                        04/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I would definitely consider this to be sex. Yes, I've done it, and do it regularly. I think I'd probably be sexually incompatible with someone who was uncomfortable with this, or who thought of it as somehow "not really sex"/"less than" sex.
                        
                        
                        04/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Yep, it's great.
                        
                        
                        04/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Definitely -- I love this. Very low pressure.
                        
                        
                        04/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Once in a while. It's more often a foreplay thing not the main event. I prefer to have us touch each other then ourselves, but that's just my preference.
                        
                        
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