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Contributor: Passionate Mandi Passionate Mandi 07/30/2012

I've used a small vibrator with my boyfriend, but we want to experiment with something bigger & more powerful. Which do you recommend?

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Which type would be best? (26 posts)
Contributor: Passionate Mandi Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any input would be greatly appreciated!
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Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
the wanachi might be a good place to start looking
07/30/2012
Contributor: Raigne Raigne
From your selections, it seems like you still want to keep it pretty small. If you don't mind something that has a cord, I would take a look at the e-sensual bullet.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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Not voting on the products but the categories I went with the Lulu or the Renew. I'd go with something that is good for both internal and external use, and also something that can be used externally during intercourse.

My top recommendations would be the Envie Ripples (powerful, lots of settings, versatile), the Diamond Fairy (easy to use, quality, cheap, eats batteries quickly), the Picobong Zizo (AWESOME toy, great settings, a bit expensive, very quality), the Sinfonia (quality, great if you like a bit of internal stimulation and a lot of external), or the Harmonia (for those who like internal stimulation a bit more than external.)
07/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Voted for the wand - a good clit vibe is the place to start.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
L'amour bullet
07/31/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Love the high intensity bullet and we use it together a lot.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any ... more
Wanachi mini (Purple)
07/31/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Wanachi mini has my vote!
08/01/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Hitachi.
08/02/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Hitachi.
Yep, something more powerful, and as Hitachi seems to be much weaker than the large Fairy Wand it is suitable for average tastes...
08/02/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
A wand like a Hitachi or Fairy. I'm not sure how they compare in use to each other but I absolutely love my Fairy (as a bonus there is a rechargeable one).
08/03/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any ... more
Wanachi mini looks good.
08/05/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
everyone seems to love the wanachi!
08/05/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Wanachi mini
08/18/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any ... more
Wanachi mini (Purple)
08/21/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Since you mentioned wanting something powerful, the Wanachi would probably be best.
08/23/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
Wanachi mini
09/07/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I like my Wanachi mini... especially for travel
09/11/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
lulu satin scoop! good g spot vibe. a lot like the one my hubby and i used
09/11/2012
Contributor: Becky Lee Becky Lee
Wanachi mini
01/21/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Lulu. G-spot stimulation is fun to experiment with with your partner.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any ... more
Lots of possibilities...I try and order more than one at a time. Trying a few will usually net a winner.
01/22/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
For your first time, I'd do a mini, just to get used to the size and vibrations
01/27/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
Of the choices here I'd go with the Wanachi Mini
01/28/2013
Contributor: imperialyellowdragon imperialyellowdragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Mandi
I've used the WallBanger on my own before, but don't want something too intimidating. My bf is well endowed, but I recall it was rather large. I'm looking for feedback on general categories, not so much specific products, yet. But any ... more
its not really about the vibrators. I would say its more about the mood. anytime your searching for a new toy. try to make it that both partners enjoy. relax and don't be scared to try new things.
if you want help and tips. let me know.
11/16/2013