The New Intimacy

How long till you get intimate with someone you've been dating?

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Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
How long till you .....

1. Kiss
2. Make Out
3. Have Oral sex
4. Intercourse

I now that there is not set amount of time it all depends on the person and how comfortable you feel with the person but some people do have and average time they give before getting intimate. For example some people will not kiss on the first date no matter how much they may want to.
03/15/2011
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Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I can't remember. It depends on the guy and the type of relationship. I used to usually kiss on the first date, and I've dated guys I never had sex with, as well as had sex with guys I never officially dated. There was no set period of time.
03/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
It really depends on the person and the situation. It can vary a lot with me.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Yeah it definitely varies with me. If I like them I usually don't wait to kiss though. I usually don't have oral sex until after I've had regular sex because to me it seems more intimate.
03/15/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Taylor
Yeah it definitely varies with me. If I like them I usually don't wait to kiss though. I usually don't have oral sex until after I've had regular sex because to me it seems more intimate.
Interesting statement. A long time ago I think while I was listening to Howard Stern he or something brought up that point that oral sex was more intimate than intercourse. And I think a guy in college said something about he would will only go down on his wife.
03/16/2011
Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
Well I am a virgin so it has to take a while til I am comfy.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
It varies quite a bit for me as well. I usually have my first kiss a week or two after dating (if we're seeing each other every few days, otherwise longer). Making out...a month? Oral sex, probably a couple of months. I waited over a year and a half to have intercourse with my current partner and he is my first, so not sure about that one.
03/16/2011
Contributor: BelleIsabelle15 BelleIsabelle15
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
How long till you .....

1. Kiss
2. Make Out
3. Have Oral sex
4. Intercourse

I now that there is not set amount of time it all depends on the person and how comfortable you feel with the person but some people do have and ... more
If its the right person, sometimes it happens on the first date,sometimes even fore the first date.
03/16/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It took a while to do anything with my boyfriend when we were starting out, but I was also in high school and not ready. If I were to get a new partner now, things would probably go much much faster.
03/17/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I can't remember. It depends on the guy and the type of relationship. I used to usually kiss on the first date, and I've dated guys I never had sex with, as well as had sex with guys I never officially dated. There was no set period of time. ... more
Same here. For me, it just depends on the relationship and the guy. I have no set rules on the matter.
03/17/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Honestly, all of the above pretty quickly. Simply because (as some of you have read in regards to my recent singledom) if the sexual compatibility isn't great for me, it's not a good match and never going to be.
03/17/2011
Contributor: MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
How long till you .....

1. Kiss
2. Make Out
3. Have Oral sex
4. Intercourse

I now that there is not set amount of time it all depends on the person and how comfortable you feel with the person but some people do have and ... more
kinda irrelevant for me, but hypothetically, given that i like them (or else why would i be dating them)

1. same day
2. same day
3. if i knew them at least somewhat already? same day
4. if i knew them very well, it depends. one i just met in person and talked to for a few months online, the other i had dated about 4 years prior and was good friends w/
03/18/2011