I don't know what's wrong with me lately. There was a time not so long ago(maybe 2 years even) that i wanted to have sex at every second. Now I never want it. My boyfriend and I don't live together anymore so now it seems like a chore. I want nothing to do with it until we are doing it and then it is fabulous. There is nothing that i would change about our actual sex. After 7 years he can still amaze me and leave me utterly exhausted. Then once I'm dressed and back home, my mind goes right back to thinking that was a waste of time. Is this part of aging? Is it pure laziness? It makes him feel like I don't desire him, but I really don't think that has anything to do with it.

Do I need to add into this that I am mentally unstable? My therapist says I have Borderline disorder with bi-polar tendencies. Maybe that is my problem. I don't have any idea. Can anyone help? less