i wouldnt
Second chances after cheating?
05/21/2012
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It would depend on the situation; But I'm a pretty forgiving person. Chances are, however, even if they never actually cheated again it wouldn't be the same. From that moment on, you would always be asking yourself "Are they cheating right now? Are they lying about where they are?" And so on. You will ALWAYS question everything they say and do, and you'd never feel comfortable again, even if you truly have forgiven them for it and even if they TRULY repent and don't do it again. :\
Originally posted by
Peggi
Many of us have been cheated on by a significant other and know the pain, and some of us have not. If you found out that your partner had cheated on you would you give them a second chance? This of course would include, at least after a period of
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Many of us have been cheated on by a significant other and know the pain, and some of us have not. If you found out that your partner had cheated on you would you give them a second chance? This of course would include, at least after a period of time, trusting them not to do it again!
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05/21/2012
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I'll just leave it be, I'm cheating too!
Originally posted by
Peggi
Many of us have been cheated on by a significant other and know the pain, and some of us have not. If you found out that your partner had cheated on you would you give them a second chance? This of course would include, at least after a period of
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more
Many of us have been cheated on by a significant other and know the pain, and some of us have not. If you found out that your partner had cheated on you would you give them a second chance? This of course would include, at least after a period of time, trusting them not to do it again!
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THAT VOTE
Was made just because I wanted to POP that vote.
I been cheated on many times that I can't trust, can't love, and will not give that Man a second chance! 3 years dealing with trust issue's asn't worth it.
05/27/2012
Depends a lot on the circumstances, but most likely not. It destroys a lot of trust way too quickly
05/27/2012
it really depends i havent had it happen yet thank god so thats great but id probly be parnoid if a gave a cheater a second chance
05/27/2012
Never
10/19/2012
I demand to be treated with respect and cheating is one of the most hurtful things. not only are you showing me that you don't care about my feelings, you don't care about my personal health. He could be bringing home any kind of STD. I would drop him sooo fast he wouldn't even have time to try to explain/apologize. I'm raising a little lady and she only learns from seeing what mommy does. If I allow myself to be treated badly, I'm showing her that it is ok to be treated as less than what she as a woman is worth.
10/24/2012
No way!
10/24/2012
I have took someone back after they cheated on me to only find out they did it again. So now if I find out you are gone I don't give no more chances.
10/24/2012
NO WAY.
I've been through that before and I've given second chances. and he took advantage of that. That ruined me. and sadly I use that against my current BF. Who has a rep. of doing that. I trust him now yea. But if he was to do me like that knowing and watching what I went through thats messed up...
I've been through that before and I've given second chances. and he took advantage of that. That ruined me. and sadly I use that against my current BF. Who has a rep. of doing that. I trust him now yea. But if he was to do me like that knowing and watching what I went through thats messed up...
10/24/2012