This new guy that I'm seeing is completely accepting of the fact that I'm basically a jerk-off buddy for strangers online, which I find more than a little odd. I don't think I would be ok with that if it were the other way around, but he says that's irrelevant. In fact, he says it sort of turns him on to know that all of those strangers pay for something that cuddles up beside him every night. Do you guys think that it means that he really likes me and is willing to genuinely accept me for who I am? Or do you think it means that he doesn't care because he could care less about what I do? I mean, he literally lets me do my streams while he is sitting in the same room playing video games. Mind you, he is 100% straight and I do femdom camming, so I talk in a gay mannerism for the entirety of most of my shows which would typically gross most straight men out, I think. I'm just curious to see what some people's opinions are, because this will be my first relationship since my divorce, so I'm very timid about diving into this too quickly. For me though, this is a major sign that the guy is really into me, or else he wouldn't put up with it, right? Like maybe it's safe for me to proceed with letting down my walls a little? Advice would be so much appreciated!
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Is it weird that I'm a little shocked my new bf doesn't mind me being a webcam model?
05/02/2022
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I used to cam. My husband never had a problem with it. He knew other guys paid me to help them jerk off and I used to do a lot of privates where I had to moan the guys name. It never bothered my husband because he knew it was a job. Maybe that’s what your BF thinks? He just knows it means nothing to you and that you are where you want to be. My husband supports me if I choose to start camming again. So my personal thought not knowing him or you is just that he knows these other guys mean nothing and it’s work. Like I’ve heard of girls getting attached to guys that watch them “customers” as it were. But I think as long as it’s completely innocent you should be fine letting your walls down. I’m assuming that your BF is the guy you are happy with at the end of the night. And as long as y’all both know that I’ve seen many relationships like this work.
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MissMichella420
This new guy that I'm seeing is completely accepting of the fact that I'm basically a jerk-off buddy for strangers online, which I find more than a little odd. I don't think I would be ok with that if it were the other way around, but he
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This new guy that I'm seeing is completely accepting of the fact that I'm basically a jerk-off buddy for strangers online, which I find more than a little odd. I don't think I would be ok with that if it were the other way around, but he says that's irrelevant. In fact, he says it sort of turns him on to know that all of those strangers pay for something that cuddles up beside him every night. Do you guys think that it means that he really likes me and is willing to genuinely accept me for who I am? Or do you think it means that he doesn't care because he could care less about what I do? I mean, he literally lets me do my streams while he is sitting in the same room playing video games. Mind you, he is 100% straight and I do femdom camming, so I talk in a gay mannerism for the entirety of most of my shows which would typically gross most straight men out, I think. I'm just curious to see what some people's opinions are, because this will be my first relationship since my divorce, so I'm very timid about diving into this too quickly. For me though, this is a major sign that the guy is really into me, or else he wouldn't put up with it, right? Like maybe it's safe for me to proceed with letting down my walls a little? Advice would be so much appreciated!
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Me and my husband met in ‘06 I cammed from ‘12 to ‘16 then quit( personal reasons) we are still together and have never had any problems. He knows everything I do and has helped mod, film, and edit any adult work I’ve done.
05/02/2022
I would never be a cam person. Don’t have the body or mindset for that. However If I did I don’t think he would mind. Anyway, we will never know
05/08/2022
I'm my opinion I say just be yourself because your man knows what time it is. It's your job and he's man enough to know it. Plus, your one of them cool women who knows the ropes. Let the walls down!
05/11/2022
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