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What kind of relationship are you looking for?

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Contributor: snowminx snowminx
What are you looking for right now?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Monogamous
eri86 , married with children , Zombirella , sunkissedJess , blondie , Gluesnffr , lillmiss5054 , melliegirl , peppermintgal , HannahPanda , Lavender*Moon , Thong man , Bignuf , imperialyellowdragon , edeneve , Graniteal , Isola
17
Open (one main partner and different sex partners on the side)
Diablotin
1
Poly (multiple partners on both sexual and emotional side)
CinnamonNights
1
Non-committed (friends with benefits, cuddle/kissing buddy, etc.)
blondie , joiedejouets , imperialyellowdragon , edeneve
4
Looking for someone on the side (affair)
Not looking (already in one)
married with children , bratcat , sigian , spiced , Silverwinds , joolie , Sera26 , friendswithfangs , Clock Chime , Rossie , Gluesnffr , vittmsk , karenm , *Camoprincess* , BrittaniMaree , KittyGoesRawr , Thong man , okno0
18
Not looking (like being single now)
eri86 , sunkissedJess , Beautiful-Disaster , blondie
4
Other
eri86 , sunflower , Adnerbmw , CinnamonNights
4
Total votes: 49 (38 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
I'm single, not officially looking, but when I do, I want a monogamous one.
04/28/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
I want a casual romantic/sexual relationship where we hang out and have fun and keep each other company but aren't really serious about love and all that crap? Like one where we can hang out and be good friends and do romantic stuff but there aren't any major emotional needs or pressure for love. Idk.

I actually had an opportunity for a FWB and it made me think about how great of a setup it would be because basically we really aren't great friends and don't particularly like each other. So it would be the ultimate no-strings-attached booty call because there would be literally no chance for romantic feelings at all. It would just be like "I call you when I want something and then you leave afterwards" type thing. The guy is a huge junkie and I don't want to be involved with that kind of person. But it made me think "hmt hat kind of situation would be nice"

I am just not ready for a commitment?
04/28/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I'm just looking for an even deeper connection with my soulmate, my wife.
04/28/2013
Contributor: Clock Chime Clock Chime
Not looking.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I'm not looking for one.. I like being single... Nobody to worry about.. stress free.. It does get very lonely though.
05/22/2013
Contributor: blondie blondie
Not really looking. I don't have the energy to put into one right now.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
I am not looking since I am happily with my girlfriend.
05/22/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
Non-Committed.
05/22/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I'm happily monogamous with my boyfriend.
06/04/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Not looking (already in one)
06/05/2013
Contributor: KittyGoesRawr KittyGoesRawr
Hopelessly, monogamously in love!
07/29/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Monogamous for me
07/29/2013
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
What are you looking for right now?
Right now I'm more browsing that actually looking for a boyfriend. Regardless, I'm looking for a monogamous relationship and that seems to be the problem. All the guys interested in me just want a non-committed or casual relationship.
08/20/2013
Contributor: imperialyellowdragon imperialyellowdragon
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
What are you looking for right now?
monogamous for me too. smiling. is there any single responsible, respectful, loving, etc. out there living in the state of mass?
11/16/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I am happily married but i wouldnt mind Finding a girl that i can be friends with and possibly have a sexual relationship with.
11/16/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
lately, I'm involved w/ a guy for sexual explorations.
11/16/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Poly want a cracker! Only 3 people tho. I already have my lovely boyfriend, just one more. Particularly a girl, shall take a while though since she would have to like me annnd my boyfriend.
11/17/2013
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
happy with my monogamous relationship, and i think that's what i'd look for in general if i weren't.
11/17/2013
Contributor: imperialyellowdragon imperialyellowdragon
Quote:
Originally posted by snowminx
What are you looking for right now?
well as for me. this is most likely why I am still single. LOL.
someone with a credit score higher then 675. this will show me responsibility and respect. someone who has at least 17,000$ saved. this will show responsibility. someone with a job for more then 3 years. again this shows respect and responsibility. now the easy stuff. smiling. someone who is loving and caring. a lady who does not yell or scream. someone who is romantic. I am not searching for someone perfect. just a lady who cares and tries. someone fun and open to new things. yes I am going very slow. the real question for you is, are you ready to search for one? most people are not ready and they just jump into it. then there lives is over. they find in the future there not happy. sadly. I hope this will help you find the right person.
12/28/2013