None of the past options represent me. I don't regret it at all and I think I was ready. I don't care what teens do if it's safe and consensual and I will give my kids condoms or dental dams or whatever their heart desires. If I adopt a girl I'll probably buy her the I <3 female orgasm book. haha
When you were a teen
12/11/2012
I was 14 or so when I lost mine. I don't regret it.
12/11/2012
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I was 17 and I never regretted it. I think problems with teenager sex occur because the sex-negative environment, not because of sex itself.
When I was that age, 15 years and having sex was not unusual in Europe, many girls started using contraceptives at the age of 14, mainly because of acne.
I was 17 and I never regretted it. I think problems with teenager sex occur because the sex-negative environment, not because of sex itself.
When I was that age, 15 years and having sex was not unusual in Europe, many girls started using contraceptives at the age of 14, mainly because of acne.
12/12/2012
I was 16 and honestly have blocked it out of my memory. I consider my second person my first because it was much better experience all around.
12/15/2012
I was only a couple months shy of my 18th birthday the first time I had sex. I can't fully say that I regret it, because I later had two beautiful children with that man. But I was young, and thought I knew everything I wanted. Live and learn, I guess.
12/15/2012
I was 19 and I wish I had done it differently. I was just eager to shed the "burden of virginity". I wish I had waited and done it with someone I loved. I also felt really pressured my first 2 times. With my current boyfriend I was not pressured at all and the first time we had sex was amazing...even if it wasn't very good!
12/16/2012
I wasn't and I am happy with that.
12/16/2012
I was fourteen when I lost my virginity. I just really wanted to have sex with someone. It happened. Who cares? I don't. Even now... if I want to have sex and I find someone willing, why not? Yes, I get the whole, "oh, but you need to be in a caring relationship" spiel. But I don't want a relationship. I'm happy and content with myself.
Granted, when I was a teen and had sex, there was a time when I had this notion that the person would like me. I had low self-esteem. I learned. I grew. I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't done all that. I am happy where I am today. I don't regret it.
Granted, when I was a teen and had sex, there was a time when I had this notion that the person would like me. I had low self-esteem. I learned. I grew. I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't done all that. I am happy where I am today. I don't regret it.
12/16/2012
I was 17 and very much in love with my girlfriend, 15, who was also a virgin. My only regret is that we didn't do it sooner.
12/22/2012
I def. Regret it
12/22/2012
I first had sex when I was a month away from turning 16 and for almost 10 months with the same guy.
I used to regret it - after I broke up with him but then I had a 'summer fling' when I was 18 and after that kind of got over it.
I still don't regret it - mostly because while the first guy was into groping and heavy petting, he never pressured sex and I was the one that lost patience and prompted penetrative sex.
I used to regret it - after I broke up with him but then I had a 'summer fling' when I was 18 and after that kind of got over it.
I still don't regret it - mostly because while the first guy was into groping and heavy petting, he never pressured sex and I was the one that lost patience and prompted penetrative sex.
12/29/2012
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I was 17. I really wasnt ready but it wasnt like it was a one night stand, i was in a relationship with them for 3 years but I still dont think that we were ready.
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SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
12/29/2012
I wouldn't really say that I was "sexually active" I fooled around a bit with boys, but I think I had a driver's license when I started, so I wasn't super young.
I didn't have a ton of experience when I started dating my fiance (at 19) and I'm pretty happy about that. Neither of us had any bad habits to unlearn, and it all worked out well.
I didn't have a ton of experience when I started dating my fiance (at 19) and I'm pretty happy about that. Neither of us had any bad habits to unlearn, and it all worked out well.
12/29/2012
I only masturbated. And I never dated until college. I kinda wish I had gotten some experience.
12/29/2012
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i think people are just more open and brag about it now.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
01/02/2013
I was sexually active at 14/15, and I have absolutely no regrets. My experiences make me who I am, and I wouldn't change a thing!
01/03/2013
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I was but it was late teens vs where kids are these days.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
01/04/2013
I was having sex by my freshman year in high school. I was very promiscuous and had many sex partners over my 4 years of school.
01/08/2013
When I was a teen, I was not sexually active and I am proud for not being so.
01/08/2013
I wasn't sexually active in the sense that I wasn't having sex with other people, but I was masturbating like crazy in those days. We are talking several times a day, here. ^^UU
01/08/2013
I lost my virginity when i was just 14. I don't regret it, but i wish i would have waited until i was ready
01/08/2013
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and in college even though all of my friends already had (no particular reason, just never happened). I like to think that I am making up for it now by having a really awesome sex life
01/17/2013
i was having sex by 12-13
01/17/2013
I was sexually active around 16 or 17 but it was with someone that i loved and someone who i was in a longterm relationship with. I don't regret being active at that age If I could of I would have done it alot earlier because I was sexually frustrated before then! The only regrets I had were of the guys I had sex with, that I would have changed, not the age.
01/17/2013
i dont regret anything. if it didnt happen then i wouldnt be where im at now.
01/17/2013
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I think sex needs to be a more open topic, in the home, schools, just in society. It is not shameful, and if parents were more open and kids were educated then there would not be as many problems with STI's and pregnancies today.
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
02/16/2013
I became sexually active when I was 19. "technically" a teen, but not really? Either way, I don't regret it.
02/25/2013
I was sexually active as a teenager and do not regret it. I managed to luck out and snag a boy who had slept around already and regretted that so we took things slowly and he was very patient with me and our relationship.
It seems that things are the same except that teenagers are more likely to talk about sexual activity more now than back in my day.
It seems that things are the same except that teenagers are more likely to talk about sexual activity more now than back in my day.
03/29/2013
I do not think young people are more active overall. I do think there is a lot more same sex exploration than when I was a teen.
03/29/2013
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Kids today definitely have more access to information about safer sex, which in my opinion is never a bad thing!
Originally posted by
SecretToyLover2
Were you sexually active? I was and I regret it. Seeing my younger sister be active just freaks me out though. She's even younger than I used to be. The times have changed!
03/29/2013