do you include erotic massage in your love time with your partner? if so, what techniques do you find erotic? and how often do you include it in your love time together?
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Do you include erotic massage in your love time? if so, what techniques do you find erotic?
01/17/2014
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I did with my previous partner, but my fiance now doesn't seem too into that kind of thing. He's more of the type to want to play with me and get me going rather than me doing it to him. He'll give me a massage every now and then, but nothing erotic.
01/18/2014
Our foreplay is mostly erotic massage. We use a ton of techniques and more than a few toys. Feathers, strands of pearls, a makeup brush. The wartenberg wheel, slappers, crops and floggers also find their way into the mix to change up from smooth to sharp - and back again.
A back massage might start things out - with a fair amount of neck kisses and a few whacks of the flogger. If that doesn't 'descend' into wild rear-entry scenario, she'll turn over for a breast massage. For some reason she started to really like the flogger on her breasts as well.
When its time for the main-event - she loves a firm massage of her groin area. A lot of nerves and sinew converge. I alternate between finger and firmer thumb strokes - then make my hands into fists and press with them - not hitting.
I love this part of the play - so I make it last. Mixing in feathers, makeup brush and pearls along her smoothly shaven vulva. I'm just learning to use the wartenberg wheel - but its good for contrast. Before long she's begging for something inside.
From this point I suppose we're beyond the sensual massage portion of the evening.
A back massage might start things out - with a fair amount of neck kisses and a few whacks of the flogger. If that doesn't 'descend' into wild rear-entry scenario, she'll turn over for a breast massage. For some reason she started to really like the flogger on her breasts as well.
When its time for the main-event - she loves a firm massage of her groin area. A lot of nerves and sinew converge. I alternate between finger and firmer thumb strokes - then make my hands into fists and press with them - not hitting.
I love this part of the play - so I make it last. Mixing in feathers, makeup brush and pearls along her smoothly shaven vulva. I'm just learning to use the wartenberg wheel - but its good for contrast. Before long she's begging for something inside.
From this point I suppose we're beyond the sensual massage portion of the evening.
01/18/2014
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We try to include it at least once every couple of weeks. Focus on pleasing each other while working out any tense spots that you might find in the genital region - believe it or not every muscle in the body can get tense and yes that includes below your belt. Working out any tension can be a good thing for the individual as well as for the couple in general and it can improve the overall quality of your love life. Search for Yoni/Lingam massage information online or PM me for more info.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Our foreplay is mostly erotic massage. We use a ton of techniques and more than a few toys. Feathers, strands of pearls, a makeup brush. The wartenberg wheel, slappers, crops and floggers also find their way into the mix to change up from smooth to
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Our foreplay is mostly erotic massage. We use a ton of techniques and more than a few toys. Feathers, strands of pearls, a makeup brush. The wartenberg wheel, slappers, crops and floggers also find their way into the mix to change up from smooth to sharp - and back again.
A back massage might start things out - with a fair amount of neck kisses and a few whacks of the flogger. If that doesn't 'descend' into wild rear-entry scenario, she'll turn over for a breast massage. For some reason she started to really like the flogger on her breasts as well.
When its time for the main-event - she loves a firm massage of her groin area. A lot of nerves and sinew converge. I alternate between finger and firmer thumb strokes - then make my hands into fists and press with them - not hitting.
I love this part of the play - so I make it last. Mixing in feathers, makeup brush and pearls along her smoothly shaven vulva. I'm just learning to use the wartenberg wheel - but its good for contrast. Before long she's begging for something inside.
From this point I suppose we're beyond the sensual massage portion of the evening. less
A back massage might start things out - with a fair amount of neck kisses and a few whacks of the flogger. If that doesn't 'descend' into wild rear-entry scenario, she'll turn over for a breast massage. For some reason she started to really like the flogger on her breasts as well.
When its time for the main-event - she loves a firm massage of her groin area. A lot of nerves and sinew converge. I alternate between finger and firmer thumb strokes - then make my hands into fists and press with them - not hitting.
I love this part of the play - so I make it last. Mixing in feathers, makeup brush and pearls along her smoothly shaven vulva. I'm just learning to use the wartenberg wheel - but its good for contrast. Before long she's begging for something inside.
From this point I suppose we're beyond the sensual massage portion of the evening. less
02/17/2014
We're off the beat here. We find spanking sometimes to be simulating. I guess that doesn't fall in the erotic category though.
02/17/2014
We don't currently, however, I want to add in a penile massage for my husband. Wondering, are there any guys out here that enjoy it---and what techniques are best to differentiate it from a hand job. Also, women who give erotic massages to your man, what techniques do you use to rock his socks off
02/20/2015
Im not sure its considered erotic massage but my wife loves it when I give her a massage . She says it really puts her in the mood
04/16/2016
Linna
That's a good practice if not used very often. I would call that special moment foreplay.
04/07/2017
20yearstogether
We have an electric massager that we use on each other. It loosens the muscles & works out the kinks (can add some kinks too!). As we get older, we seem to need more massage & chiropractic to function. We spent about 25 years as serious mountain bikers so now we are paying the price!
Wouldn't change a thing!!!
Wouldn't change a thing!!!
08/27/2017
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Are we talking about electro-stim here?
Originally posted by
20yearstogether
We have an electric massager that we use on each other. It loosens the muscles & works out the kinks (can add some kinks too!). As we get older, we seem to need more massage & chiropractic to function. We spent about 25 years as serious
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more
We have an electric massager that we use on each other. It loosens the muscles & works out the kinks (can add some kinks too!). As we get older, we seem to need more massage & chiropractic to function. We spent about 25 years as serious mountain bikers so now we are paying the price!
Wouldn't change a thing!!! less
Wouldn't change a thing!!! less
If yes, please share your experience. Which sexual zones do you use it on?
08/29/2017
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