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Do you enjoy your name being called during sex?

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Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
I've had some people say they enjoy their partner screaming their name.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
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144  (59%)
No
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32  (13%)
other explain
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70  (28%)
Total votes: 246
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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I don't know. It's never happened.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's fine occasionally... I wouldn't want it every time though... I like variety.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I like having my name said, but not screamed. Sometimes he says it over and over and I actually start to get a little annoyed, but usually I like it.
01/15/2011
Contributor: looksy lou looksy lou
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
I've had some people say they enjoy their partner screaming their name.
i prefer moaning
01/15/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
I've had some people say they enjoy their partner screaming their name.
The sexiest thing Sigel ever did was one night as we were getting in the groove he says my name so husky, and fairly loud that I nearly came at the sound. It was pure passion and made for some amazing sex. It was one of the first times I had ever actually heard him so overcome with desire/passion that he wasn't his normal quiet self.

Arch is a bit more vocal but not much more...still it's an amazing thing, at least to me!
01/15/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
It doesn't really float my boat.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Occasionally, (like 6 times in the entire time we have been married)in the middle of an intense orgasm my husband has growled my name. The sound is very primal and it rattles my core; not because it is loud, but rather a sound that makes you melt. God, that is the biggest turn on for me; I wish I could record it. I love it, that in that moment, I can evoke that kind of vocal response from him (wish it happened more often). I have never heard him say my name like that at any other time. But I love it when he calls me by name in our daily lives, well except when I am in trouble.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
If my partner isn't using my name for punctuation, then yes!
01/15/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Somehow it makes sex more intense, and a lot more personal.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Yoda
Somehow it makes sex more intense, and a lot more personal.
I'd second that!
01/15/2011
Contributor: Kissaki Kissaki
Oddly, I don't recall my wife and I ever trying this. We'll have to give it a try.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
As opposed to somebody elses name, yes definitely. On a regular basis, definitely not something I would really get into. I am not really into hearing much other than grunting and moaning.

I once heard that Russel Crowe calls his own name during sex. That still makes me laugh. Wonder if it's true.
01/15/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Actually hasn't happened, but I imagine it wouldn't be bad. It'd be sexier I think if I knew the person better, not a stranger...meh
01/15/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
As opposed to somebody elses name, yes definitely. On a regular basis, definitely not something I would really get into. I am not really into hearing much other than grunting and moaning.

I once heard that Russel Crowe calls his own name ... more
Bahahaha, Russel Crowe. One can only hope
01/15/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
No one's ever called me by my name during sex, but i've been called another woman's name. That wasn't fun.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by deletedacct
No one's ever called me by my name during sex, but i've been called another woman's name. That wasn't fun.
Ditto, when I lost my virginity.

Oh Russel! Oh Russel! RUSS RUSS RUSS!!!! mmmGAaaah!!!!
01/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
No one has ever called me by name during sex...I guess I can live without it.
01/15/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
Such a turn on for me, can't get enough of it.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Cowboyssweetie Cowboyssweetie
not if it is said on purpose
01/15/2011
Contributor: Xomandypantsxo Xomandypantsxo
i think its sooo sexy when he moans my name, it makes it more intense!
01/15/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We just use our pet names - it's plenty intimate for both of us.
01/17/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
I've had some people say they enjoy their partner screaming their name.
Yes I do.
01/17/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I love it when my husband says my name in bed or the kitchen floor or wherever we happen to be, but I'm good with the other names he calls me too. It doesn't JUST have to be my given name.
01/17/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I love when my boyfriend moans my name. There's just something about it that's just...amazing.
01/17/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
We mostly make other sounds, but I do enjoy it, especially as a couple people mentioned upthread about the growling of your name. It is such a sexy sound, I also nearly come when I hear it. I say his name sometimes too, which I've never done with anyone else - but I really like it. It's intimate and you might as well give credit where credit is due!
01/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
We mostly make other sounds, but I do enjoy it, especially as a couple people mentioned upthread about the growling of your name. It is such a sexy sound, I also nearly come when I hear it. I say his name sometimes too, which I've never done ... more
"...you might as well give credit where credit is due!"

ABSOLUTELY!!!!
01/24/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
I'm indifferent to it. It doesn't really do anything for me. But, when I call my partner's name, he loves it so much that it brings him close to cumming, so I try not to say it too often.
01/25/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
never gave it much thought
01/25/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
When anyone says my name it always sounds like I'm in trouble so it's not much of a turn on for me because I'm immediately like "oh shit what did I do NOW?". I think I've only said his name once or twice and it felt alien to me to do so. Baby, Sexy and Honey are used much more frequently. In fact, we only use each other's names when we're around people and we're playfully chastising each other.
01/25/2011