For OW, it's kissing, nipple teasing then kissing, complimenting on her looks, cooking ( best way to this man's heart) , then cunnilingus on her labia, clitoris. Follow by squeezing her tits while performing cunnilingus. Then guess what ? More cunnilingus. After she's good and wet and cries out some brief moans some gentle thrusting with a dildo while still licking her clit and lapping up her juices.
When I'm out of breath, just good fast steady dildo-ing til she begs me to stop.

For me, she likes to fondle me up with her hand, continue rubbing the head, cuddles my testicles and squeeze my erection over and over. After a short break, perform oral on me til my head is engulfed. If I already don't have a plug or the Aneros in me, she will put my choice in. Then it's more sucking, accompanied with gentle thrusting. After a few choice moans, she'll work on the head and teasingly go all the way down. Then while I'm still in her mouth, she will thrust me til she's tired out or so hot gotta to have me inside her.

That's it for us luckydog69. I hope this helps to break your shyness so you can share a little with us.