Age when you first had sex? Do you think you rushed it?

Contributor: kinksters kinksters
16 for me (her) & 17 for him first time together
05/19/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
I was 16. The act itself was rushed and it was very early into our relationship (only a week in), but I was definitely ready. I'm still with the same guy (our anniversary today actually!) so I wouldn't take it back.
05/19/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I was 18. It wasn't a positive experience but I wouldn't call it rushed. I guess I'd say it was a learning experience.
05/19/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
18 and I think it was great timing. It was only 3 weeks into our relationship, but we'd known each other for months prior. We're still together, but even if we weren't, I don't think I'd regret that part of the relationship. It was just right.
12/15/2011
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
age 23, it kinda went in, but i didn't feel anything and then it popped out. that's about as far as i've gotten in terms of vaginal intercourse.
12/15/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
My first penetrative sex was not consensual so I don't count it. I first had oral sex at 15. My first consensual penetrative sex was at 17. I do feel like I rushed all of it. I was a late bloomer but had a "bad girl" attitude/image and wanted to keep up with it. I don't regret it, though.
12/15/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I first had sex at 25. I never considered having sex in my teen years for religious reasons (and it's always been easy to put off sex when no one is interested ). I couldn't be happier that I waited.
12/17/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
I was 16. I don't think it was rushed for me, my boyfriend and I were both virgins and we waited a couple months. The relationship lasted only 9 months, but I have no regrets because he was good to me.
12/18/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I was nearly 19, it wasn't "rushed" but definitely with the wrong person.
12/19/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
I was 16, a month before my 17th birthday. IT opened me up to knowing myself and what I want/how to pleasure myself as well as getting me close with my boyfriend. We were together a year and a half before we first had intercourse. I never regretted it. My boyfriend then is my husband now. First and current lover - gotta love it.
12/20/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I was sixteen and it was pretty boring the first three times, but I do not think I rushed into it at all. Still with that partner, and practice has made perfect.
12/21/2011
Contributor: SweetSurprise SweetSurprise
Was 14 and still with him. It wasnt great but not rushed either. We made up for it though lol.
12/21/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I was old... 23.
12/21/2011
Contributor: her angelness her angelness
18 and it was way too rushed. should've waited until early 20s or at least had a different guy.
12/21/2011
Contributor: WildeKnight WildeKnight
Didn't rush, and NO, I'm not telling how old I was.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend at age 20. I'm 21 now.
12/23/2011
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Never had sex, dont really care either.
12/23/2011
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
we were young and in love and in a committed relationship. he respected me and it wasn't rushed at all. it was beautiful.
12/25/2011
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
I was 17. I wouldn't take it back for anything. I guess I got lucky - my first time was wonderful.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
13 was the first time having actual sex, but it was rape. 15 was the first time for consentual, and yeah, I think I rushed it then.
07/12/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Just shy of 16 and still with the guy. Not that bad of an experience either. Almost got caught by my dad though. That would have been bad
07/14/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I was 20. We waited 3 months, and we both really enjoyed it. There were hiccups and it was not mind blowing sex but the emotional connection was amazing. We just felt closer and it really helped build the relationship. So I do not regret it at all. A year later and I am still with her and we both think we will probably end up married. We are both each others firsts and do not regret it in the least.
07/14/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
I was 16 and my partner and I (who I'm still with) waited about 9 months. I don't feel like it was rushed at all and it was a perfect first experience
07/14/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
15, it was a lot of fun and I wouldn't say I rushed it.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Phoenix67 Phoenix67
I was almost 19...I don't think we rushed it, but I regret the time because neither of us were really in the mood at the time, we thought the other was. haha Oh well, it's done and I ended up marrying him anyway!
07/16/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
18. I was in love and don't feel that I rushed it.
07/17/2012
Contributor: PeachCandy PeachCandy
I was only 13 and it was awful
07/17/2012
Contributor: Butman Butman
I was 14 and it was terrible
07/17/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I was 16 and though I don't regret it, I wouldn't do things that way again if I could do it all over. She was my first monogamous girlfriend (my first girlfriend also had a boyfriend) and I was only dating her because she was the only other lesbian I knew. There was no physical attraction and I didn't have much in common with her. We'd dated about a month when it happened and she was obsessed with trying to break my iron hymen. Overall it was a totally weird and not pleasurable experience.
07/17/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
18, i wouldnt take it back!
07/17/2012