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Do you and/or your partner "take one for the team" on a regular basis?

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Contributor: petname petname
Do you concede to sex if your partner wants to and you aren't particularly in the mood? Does your partner? And if so, does your experience usually end positively (for example, you end up getting into it)?
03/04/2012
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Even if I'm not in the frame of mind I deem worthy of outrageously hot sex, I will give it my best effort and I'm usually really into it by the time the real action starts.
03/05/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
We both will be happy to "give it up" for the other if the other is really horny. Of course, there are limits. There is the occasional evening where My Man is simply exhausted from work, and wants to go right to sleep, and there are days, (usually mornings) where I may have a full blown migraine and simply can't.

But, as a rule, we're both more than happy to make the other happy. And we usually end up getting into it anyway.
03/05/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
There are days when one or the other of us will concede even if we really don't want to, but generally if one of us isn't feeling like sex, we both have enough toys to satisfy ourselves or wait until the other feels more like it (like in the morning instead of before we fall asleep the night before).
03/05/2012
Contributor: petname petname
There seems to be a theme here, but it definitely makes sense. In any case, it seems that everyone has worked out something that works for their relationship.
03/06/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
I usually am not in the mood and am very easily persuaded. I always end up enjoying it.
03/12/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
We both want sex at the same time I think, I've never had to deal with him wanting sex when I wasn't in the mood at least
02/11/2013
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by petname
Do you concede to sex if your partner wants to and you aren't particularly in the mood? Does your partner? And if so, does your experience usually end positively (for example, you end up getting into it)?
Yes, we do this regularly. Mostly because my drive is much higher than hers, she will usually help me out even though she'd rather read, or play on her phone, or go to bed.

And I do the same for her when the tables are turned. Sometimes one of us will get turned on in the process, and other times we won't. Just depends.
02/11/2013