As time goes on in your relationship, are you MORE or LESS comfortable in "rocking the boat"?

As time goes on in your relationship, are you MORE or LESS comfortable in "rocking the boat"?

Bignuf Bignuf
If you found you had a real NEW KINK interest, would you, in a long term relationship, let it drop or feel more comfortable asking your lover to try it with you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I would not suggest something I know my partner might say NO to.
2
I would certainly feel comfortable asking them about it.
32
Other???
1
Total votes: 35 (35 voters)
Poll is closed
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js250 js250
The longer we were together the more open we are about sex, fantasies and things we are curious about. Pretty much now--everything is fair game and out in the open, the other person can either agree to try it or ir can remain a fantasy to keep to ourself or talk over during sex.
08/10/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I would feel comfortable, we're very open with each other.
08/10/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I picked other. Typically you would think time would make it easier, but we've been through a lot together and communication isn't coming as easily as I would like. We were way more open with each other in the beginning than now.
08/10/2012
Kitka Kitka
The longer our relationship goes on the more comfortable we both feel with talking about or bringing up subjects that could be potentially upsetting/touchy/etc. Constant communication really is key.
08/10/2012
Kissy Kissy
I am more comfortable. We have opened up a lot to each other.
08/10/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
I'd feel comfortable talking to him about something new I wanted to try.
08/10/2012
Feisty Feisty
I would certainly feel comfortable asking them about it.
08/10/2012
Badass Badass
The longer I am with someone, the more comfortable I feel telling them any and everything that comes to my mind.
08/10/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
I always feel comfortable
08/10/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
If you found you had a real NEW KINK interest, would you, in a long term relationship, let it drop or feel more comfortable asking your lover to try it with you?
Definitely less because we're "maturing" -_-
08/10/2012
Gdom Gdom
Definitely more comfortable. More time together->more trust->more openness about these things.
08/10/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
my bf and i can pretty much talk about anything
08/10/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
We're pretty comfortable trying new things, and we're pretty open
08/11/2012
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I LOVE to try new things and most of the time, he will as well.
08/12/2012
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
The longer we were together the more open we are about sex, fantasies and things we are curious about. Pretty much now--everything is fair game and out in the open, the other person can either agree to try it or ir can remain a fantasy to keep to ...
Same here. The longer we are together the more comfortable we both feel, and the safer we feel talking about things, and trying them out.
08/12/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
The longer we're together the more new things we get to try together.
08/13/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
I think that the longer our relationship gets, the more comfortable I will get. Also, he knows to never be surprised with the kinky shit I come up with!
08/24/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
If there was something I wanted to try I would mention it to my husband to see if he was interested as well
09/24/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I would feel more comfortable.
09/24/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
I would ask but not push if he wasn't interested in trying.
09/24/2012
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 21