Does it bother you when your partner leaves or goes to bed without giving you a kiss?

Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
It used to bother me, but now there is just so much more going on in our lives, that I just don't care. It would be great, but it's not the most important thing.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
It would, but he is always very good about kissing me good night or good bye, even when he leaves for work while I am still asleep.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I always believe you should go to bed happy with a hug and a kiss. Always tell your partner (friends and family too) I love you before you leave or hang up the phone.
08/13/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
Maybe the goodnight kisses lol, but leaving not so much, depends on what they're leaving for lol. I mean a quick trip to get a glass of water and back is different than leaving for the day lol
08/14/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
The way I look at it is, it could be the last chance I have to tell him I love him or show him affection before going out into the world, so yes we kiss good night and good morning and before either of us leaves the house. Even if he's just running to the dumpster to take out the trash (different part of the complex). I'm sentimental and romantic like that.
08/14/2011
Contributor: null null
I want that goodnight kiss! Mainly because we normally do kiss goodnight, if we don't I feel like I've done something wrong and I'm in trouble. :/
08/14/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by CuteDee
It always bothers me when my boyfriend leaves for work w/o kissing me good bye.

I also feel upset when he just goes to bed... No good nite, I love you, or kiss.

Is that normal? Does anyone else feel miffed by this? = p
I'd be miffed too
08/14/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I'm not a really "kissy" person, so it's absolutely okay. In fact, I rarely kiss before going to bed.
Same for me -- guess that's the way I was raised.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Marziba Marziba
It's the opposite for me. A goodnight kiss is nice, but not necessary. There are even some nights I have to fend him off because I don't feel cuddly or kissy; I just want to SLEEP, gosh darn it! However... a kiss before he leaves for work is a must. xD
08/16/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I'd be a tad bit sad, but it wouldn't ruin my night.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I love kisses! So I would be upset if we didn't kiss before one of us headed off!
08/18/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I'm an extremely affectionate person. I looove the goodbye/goodnight kisses. He remembers every morning to kiss me before work, and after work I'll kiss him just about anywhere my lips will fit, whenever the urge to kiss him strikes me, but when he's ready for sleep, it probably just doesn't cross his mind that I would like a kiss, and by the time his head hits the pillow, he's gone ^^;; So I spoon up behind him and kiss between his shoulder blades, and most nights that's good enough for me
08/18/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by CuteDee
It always bothers me when my boyfriend leaves for work w/o kissing me good bye.

I also feel upset when he just goes to bed... No good nite, I love you, or kiss.

Is that normal? Does anyone else feel miffed by this? = p
It pisses me off if my guys leave the house without kissing me and before bed? I love that they always kiss me.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
LOL yes it actually bothers the hell out of me if he doesn't we actually have a sign above our bed that says "ALWAYS KISS ME GOODNIGHT". He's good about it though he'll wake me up very nicely to kiss me and tuck me in if I'm sleeping when he leaves.
08/18/2011
Contributor: SweetieLuv SweetieLuv
pucker up
08/18/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
We always kiss goonight and say I love you. I'm sure this will wear off with time. but who knows.
08/18/2012
Contributor: alayamae alayamae
Quote:
Originally posted by CuteDee
It always bothers me when my boyfriend leaves for work w/o kissing me good bye.

I also feel upset when he just goes to bed... No good nite, I love you, or kiss.

Is that normal? Does anyone else feel miffed by this? = p
yes!!
08/23/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I like goodnight kisses...and wake up...and good bye and hello....
08/23/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Personally I never know what will happen the next time he leaves the house for work so I'd rather get that kiss, even if I'm still asleep. I also prefer he say goodnight and give me a kiss if he's going to bed without me.
08/23/2012
Contributor: kitty91 kitty91
sometimes we dont kiss goodnight but my hubby always kisses me goodbye in the morning... even though im sleeping i always notice the kiss goobye..now i know somethings wrong if he doesnt kiss me goodbye and does bother me throughout the day!
08/23/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, but it's usually just because it's a sign that my gf is really stressed
08/23/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
He always kisses me goodbye and goodnight, hell he doesn't leave a room without kissing me let alone when he goes to work. And we always kiss goodnight, I don't sleep well if we don't
09/24/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I like it. I think it's sweet.
09/24/2012
Contributor: Tianna Silver Tianna Silver
It doesn't happen often, but I don't let it bother me when he doesn't kiss me goodnight. Especially, if I'm already sleeping when he gets home from work! Then I just want to be left alone
09/24/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
We would not be miffed by the lack of a kiss; however, the lack of acknowledgment at all would piss either of us off. We almost always give a kiss goodbye or goodnight, but even when we don't kiss we at least say something (even if we are mad at ... more
I'm pretty much the same way. I don't mind not getting a kiss, but I hate it when he just gets up and leaves the room without saying anything.
09/24/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Although we kiss each other goodnight almost every night, it's not a big deal if we miss a day here and there.
09/24/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
My husband and I moved in together about 5 years ago and other then times part (a most maybe a month in total) he has never gone to work without kissing my goodbye, be in nightshift, 5:00 in the morning or whatever and I have never failed to tell him to "Be Safe" and that I love him.
09/24/2012
Contributor: butts butts
My partner isn't a very affectionate person, he often goes to bed (and wakes up) without ever kissing me or showing affection. It gets on my nerves, but that's just how he is.
10/11/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I think it's more a hug that I want. We hug and hold each other a lot more than we kiss.
10/11/2012