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Contributor: Badass Badass 02/08/2012

Just a few questions about your cuddle habits.

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Do you cuddle after sex? (162 posts)
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More cuddling? (43 posts)
3.
Have you had a partner who didn't like to cuddle so much after sex? (36 posts)
Contributor: Badass Badass
Do you do it?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Lisa72 , switzerland , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Coralbell , Buttercup Green , padmeamidala , Pi , EdenJP , kittychilla , Do-Re-Mi , LAndJ , eeep , Stinkytofu10 , xyrella , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , A.Mari , GONE! , darthkitt3n , Swish , oneeyedoctopus , MissCandyland , (k)InkyIvy , Graniteal , Stagger13 , shcoo , fredacarl , bunniebunnie , Mwar , Rawr4483 , mistressg , Incendiaire , eroticmutt , potstickers , Mx.Nekora , BiJess , ellejay , lokoum , Lano4ka , purple579 , dhig , SiNn , dbm6907 , MamaDivine , Trepier , Akikaze , jmex83 , Do emu , Ice1 , tom fay , plaidvulva , bayosgirl , garylangworthy420 , DiamondKoala , Falsepast , Howells , ejrbrndps , Azule , Curiouscat , StarFire , Missmarc , aliceinthehole , Hallmar82 , NurseKitty , panthercat23 , palindromic , bh253 , hillys , MistressDandelion , ShyGirl717 , sexxxkitten , xOhxSoxScandalousx , cryinglightning86 , d.wooldridge , Ilovelingerie , Arch600 , CherryGryffon , SMichelle , caligaliber , ghent529 , roskat , winterseve , NarcissisticLust , xwolfiex , Mistress Sassy , Sangsara , Sauceboss , LavenderSkies , Terri69 , LaSchwartz , TheirPet , redstars , xMila , giftdgecko , Teaser , Crimson Vixen , Bowen , tortilla , Billie Bones , HannahPanda , The Mother of a SiNner , Noelle , WhoopieDoo , Cheluh10 , SkylarrStarr , PoppyTraille , Ivy Wilde , Bignuf , LostinLife , PropertyOfPotter , TiffyPixie , princessss , Badass , quinceykay , treefrog88 , Passionate Mandi , auplette , LadyDarknezz , Trysexual , insomniac9 , Zandrock , Nacht Stern , Voilet , PassionCpl , BG529 , Clara , heather-mooney , Lioncub , Elias McLovin , Lavendar , aluminummm , Boyfriend , alayamae , kitty91 , pleasurehunter , Airen Wolf , Undecided , Wonderstruck , ksparkles16 , Liberalqueer , pixylove101 , CaliGirl , Kristopher Sean , Nora29714 , edeneve , violets , Llewey , Genderfree , TheProfessors , llellsee , rockblenny , charleswifey , MidnightStorm , hanjonatan , Babylove09 , Pink Lily , Sweet-n-Playful , The Majikat , Robespierrethecat , RememberMe , novanilla , Charry , Tristan's Everything , daniel420 , puglove , xLovingYoux , MsDrProfKitty , bottled-diva , EdenG , shielaray , lovelylolaa , Buh-bye , lovebites , AishiteruYO , I Am Sherlocked , MrsHouseWife , Gluesnffr , Geography , nikki0668 , Geogeo , CindyH , Kyle Hunter , hem , Raymaker , SF , Awux , featherhead , guppiefish , captainsgirl , srexom , Kitten has left the site , Hummingbird , cowgirl1130 , amazon , ToyBunny , souviet , karenm , KinkyNicki92 , shorejen9 , *Camoprincess* , KayJay , doowop , Hot4You , purpledesert , twelve13 , KittiezToyz , Sbmsvschoolgirl , JoshJosh123 , Jax Jackson , Silverwinds , damnbul12 , notxsorry , Bme , bootyscoops , melliegirl
214  (66%)
blacklodge , Ghost , unfulfilled , hippie , cottonxcandy , ChickenFeathers , chantalgiardina , Shellz31 , jc123 , Nirelan , SouthernBelle , thisisadeletedaccount , ginainohio , sexykiss , AbbyLover , xilliannax , squire , Claire de Cerises , jr2012 , Hubby80 , Cat E. , burtnuh , Flower1 , ImportPerv , TJtheMadHatter , MK434
26  (8%)
wdanas , Cookie Monster Mike , Undead , Eliyahu , js250 , SaraU29 , Jon S , mpfm , Silverdrop , Lady Bear , corsetsaurus rex , RomanticGoth , toxie m , Caus , CynicallyYours , VelvetDragon , solitudinarian , gsfanatic , booboo111926 , MaeGal , butts , animepanda89 , Girly Juice , Llahsram , HusbandandWife , AliMc , Lacey- , kmarsico , tequilafish , hhh , falalena , nova2014 , dos1234 , KinkyKatieJames , sillylilkitten
35  (11%)
BobbiJay , Breas , Ciao. , Kitka , thelittlestdoc , SparklyGlitter , Brandonn , married with children , Nazaress , slynch , funluvinmama , Mew , catsin , misskat , BlooJay , Love Obsessed , Melan!e , badk1tty , ViVix , LoveBug721 , silverdragonfly9 , Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , KRD , Lizard , LenaLovesFun , SneakersAndPearls , Sureshot , Lildrummrgurl7 , travelnurse , Pinkshirt , SecretKinksters , Rossie , skeeterlynn , SaraW0512 , Moniqua , BornInApril , vulvalicious , CaseyDeuce , BrittaniMaree , Becky Lee , VioletMoonstone , ben12 , Martiniman , lilyflower , Ayogirl230 , Munko , snowminx , Mrs.Tee , Nkev
49  (15%)
Total votes: 324
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Contributor: Breas Breas
We do, but not every single time.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Eh, weirdly afterwards the majority of the time we get up and go do something rather than relax and sleep. Just depends on the day and time of day. But yea we more often cuddle than not.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Lisa72 Lisa72
me and my girlfriend always do.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Usually we do
02/08/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
usually, but sometimes sex makes us hungry, so instead of cuddling we make a post-sex snack and watch a movie or something (and then we cuddle on the love sac and sleep until one of the kids wake us up).
02/08/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
After my cigarette. Usually we cuddle unless one of us isn't tired.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Buttercup Green Buttercup Green
We cuddle for like 10 minutes, and then we both roll over and go to sleep. We both like our space when we are sleeping. I am satisfied with our current cuddle time!
02/08/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We do cuddle after sex but not every time. Mostly I fall asleep and he's bouncing off the walls haha.
02/08/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
We enjoy cuddling up after sex.
02/08/2012
Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
I hate cuddling after sex. I don't even really want to be touched after sex.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
I usually hate it but i like it with my current guy.
02/08/2012
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
Usually.
02/08/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
We almost always do since it's right before bed typically. We love cuddling and do a lot.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
cuddling is one of the best activities we do
02/08/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
Always! I love it.
02/08/2012
Contributor: thelittlestdoc thelittlestdoc
I'm not a huge fan of cuddling, to be honest. If you're doing it right things should be a bit messy once the action is over. I like to wash up a bit and usually use the toilet. My partner is always welcome to join me in the bath or shower if I'm not going to be right back in bed.
02/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
He's a wam, bam, thank ya mama and leaves to do whatever and I finish off with a toy.
02/09/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
everytime, my hormones call me to do it! oxycodons, they make u wanna cuddle. so we do otherwise i get kinda depresssed
02/09/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
99% of the time I like to cuddle. I usually fall asleep a couple of minutes into it though.
02/10/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
most of the time
02/13/2012
Contributor: bunniebunnie bunniebunnie
yes! it seems so natural for us.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
Yes! A good amount of time we cuddle and THEN it leads to sex. That's fun too!
02/16/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
If it's a quickie there's no time for cuddles!
02/23/2012
Contributor: lokoum lokoum
Cuddling before and after!
02/24/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Look at all these duplicate polls!

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02/25/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
yep we do
02/25/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I love to cuddle after sex
02/25/2012
Contributor: hippie hippie
my current partner loves cuddling after sex, he begs for it more than i do.
02/25/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
My partner and I cuddle any time we are in bed together.
02/26/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
yes
03/01/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
Most often when it is at night and not something that is quick. Usually fall asleep like that.
03/09/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
we cuddle about once every 3 months. not as often as I would like.
03/18/2012
Contributor: tom fay tom fay
We cuddle, just not after sex. He just goes straight to Zzzzz land
03/18/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
All the damn time!
03/18/2012
Contributor: garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
every single time one of my favorite things in life
04/02/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Almost all the time. He's usually too sweaty for me to get comfortable for very long.
04/04/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
My wife and I cuddle after sex sometimes, but it usually turns into a mess because of the cum.
04/11/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Sometimes, depends on when we do it.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Yes/sometimes.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
Sometimes I like to cuddle after sex.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Sometimes.. Not always.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Just about every time.
04/11/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
it's completely, 100% necessary for me. i need our hearts to touch. i just need to feel close, during and after. it's a consolidation of all the loving, a wind-down. ah i love post-coital cuddling!
04/11/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
We do it.
04/12/2012
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
Almost always.
04/12/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
Always, even if it's just for a few minutes. There is something different and really awesome about post sex cuddling.
04/12/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Sometimes we just ... depart right after, during afternoon quickies. It makes it feel even more naughty. XD But a lot of times we cuddle too.
04/26/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
I love to cuddle. I would feel sad if I didn't get to..
04/30/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
haha its a requirement in my current relationship, or if your running late you can say you owe me a cuddle later
04/30/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'm a huge cuddler. I don't think that's a word, but I'll go with it.
05/02/2012
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Yeah, we just roll over and he passes out and I facebook LOL
05/02/2012
Contributor: SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
We always cuddle... We are big on spooning usually.
05/05/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Not a big cuddler.
05/15/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Wow, I totally clicked the wrong answer to a question... I definitely cuddle a LOT after sex.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Personally after sex I like to have more sex


But yes, we cuddle after sex.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Arch600 Arch600
Quote:
Originally posted by Ilovelingerie
Personally after sex I like to have more sex


But yes, we cuddle after sex.
Ha ha! I love it!

We cuddle but not every time. I think more as we've gotten older though.
05/20/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I usually don't want to. Can we touch without him putting his leg over me? I feel like a freaking ottoman. Anyway, occasionally he will want to cuddle.
05/23/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
after we smoke we cuddle.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
we cuddle all the time
05/25/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
sometimes
05/25/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
I'd rather they get off me and leave, lol. I'm a girl by the way. ;-)
05/26/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I enjoy cuddling immensely. When I have sex with another person, it's mainly for the connection and intimacy. So, cuddling after partner sex is right for my needs.
05/26/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Cuddling is a must.
05/26/2012
Contributor: Mistress Sassy Mistress Sassy
We cuddle almost every single time. Cuddling is something that makes us feel content, happy, and connection, but of course we can't always do it when we get really tired sometimes. xD
05/28/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
I like for him to hold me when we get done. It helps build that non sexual relationship.
05/29/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, oddly I'm more for cuddling than my girl
05/30/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
depends on how i feel about them
05/30/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
we cuddle
05/31/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I'm a cuddler!!
06/02/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
i like my space
06/10/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
most of the time we do
06/11/2012
Contributor: MaeGal MaeGal
Most of the time, though it depends on what we have planned post sex, whether it be bed or getting food or going out or what not.
06/12/2012
Contributor: butts butts
sometimes we're just in a hurry, but we cuddle every night anyways.
06/12/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Just about every time. We also talk almost every time cause we're still learning about each other and I'm a sexual abuse survivor so my partner really wants to make sure that he/she knows my feelings.
06/13/2012
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
We always cuddle. The feeling of skin on skin after sex is purely awesome.
06/13/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
Most of the time.
06/13/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
It's almost everytime
06/14/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
we cuddle all the time.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Absolutely! I love to feel her next to me after sex!
06/15/2012
Contributor: Bowen Bowen
Usually.
07/09/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Makes it way better. Sex is not just about an orgasm. It is about a connection and cuddling helps with that. Also you are often really emotional after sex and just want to share that with your partner.
07/23/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Almost always
07/23/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
Quote:
Originally posted by Buttercup Green
We cuddle for like 10 minutes, and then we both roll over and go to sleep. We both like our space when we are sleeping. I am satisfied with our current cuddle time!
im not the only one
07/24/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Yes, but I get too hot. I would rather not, but my hubby likes to so I do.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Lizard Lizard
Sometimes.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
We generally cuddle after sex unless it's just way too warm to do so (in which case we'll sometimes just turn on a fan and cuddle anyway!). I'm lucky enough to have a partner who values it as much as I do.
07/25/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'm a cuddling fiend! Luckily my guys really like cuddling too
07/25/2012
Contributor: LenaLovesFun LenaLovesFun
I like to cuddle before sex usually or when going to sleep. Generally I need to get up right after sex not go right to sleep.
07/28/2012
Contributor: LostinLife LostinLife
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I love to cuddle but the husband does not
07/29/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We love to cuddle!
07/29/2012
Contributor: Sureshot Sureshot
She's always hot anyway, so of the A/C isn't running, there are some times when it's just too hot to cuddle
07/29/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
She usually pees, and then we cuddle.
07/29/2012
Contributor: TiffyPixie TiffyPixie
I jump to clean up usually, then yes.
07/29/2012
Contributor: princessss princessss
Yeah we cuddle, watch some tv then fall asleep Lol.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by princessss
Yeah we cuddle, watch some tv then fall asleep Lol.
That is my ideal post sex situation. lol.
07/29/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
In my experience after we've both cum we separate like we're both on fire.
07/29/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Most of the time we will cuddle but only after we catch our breath and cool down and relax.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Yes
08/10/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
We do. It might not always last for long, but we do try!
08/11/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
sometimes, it does depend on time of day.
08/11/2012
Contributor: gavind gavind
If it's not a quickie, I always cuddle. One of my favorite parts next to the deed. EdenFantasys Logo
08/12/2012
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
I am super into cuddling. Not even gonna lie.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
Sometimes I cuddle. My husband and I like to sleep away from each other just have a limb touching, so we don't cuddle very often or for very long.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
My partner and I cuddle after sex.
08/13/2012
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Cuddling after sex is wonderful
08/16/2012
Contributor: kitty91 kitty91
we do! not all the time though..sometimes we get super tired and just fall asleep!
08/23/2012
Contributor: blackbunny blackbunny
Yes! Especially after a great orgasm I just want him wrapped around me and I never want him to let go. Of course there are times when touching is just enough.
08/28/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
sometimes, it depends on the time of day. Night = sometimes, Day = usually not.
08/31/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
lol, it seems like we are always immediately jumping up to see who can make it to the bathroom first to clean up after we are done!
08/31/2012
Contributor: pixylove101 pixylove101
We don't always cuddle.
09/24/2012
Contributor: Kristopher Sean Kristopher Sean
depends
10/24/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
yes
10/24/2012
Contributor: Kristopher Sean Kristopher Sean
Quote:
Originally posted by Upyourreviews
I'd rather they get off me and leave, lol. I'm a girl by the way. ;-)
lmao.damn grl
10/24/2012
Contributor: Rosen Rot Rosen Rot
Sometimes, as long as it is not to hot.
10/25/2012
Contributor: charleswifey charleswifey
We always cuddle if we are driving we hold hands if we are sitting next to each other we lay on another or hold hands. We love being close to each other
10/29/2012
Contributor: Lacey- Lacey-
Me and my current partner usually cuddle. Sometimes I pass out and/or he goes smokes. But we definitely cuddle a lot still.
11/07/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
We cuddle after sex almost every time! The only exception is when he's particularly hot/sweaty afterwards, then he usually gets a little bit of cool-off time before cuddles.
11/07/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
currently i'm in a long term relationship, so yeah, there's always a lot of cuddling. i'd be sad if there wasn't.
11/07/2012
Contributor: kmarsico kmarsico
usually we do
11/08/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
I love the cuddle, its a need.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
We ALWAYS cuddle after sex.
11/19/2012
Contributor: Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
we do often
11/24/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I looooove to cuddle after sex.
11/27/2012
Contributor: daniel420 daniel420
98% of the time
12/01/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Sometimes.
12/01/2012
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
Cuddling after sex is mandatory for me! Even if it's only for like 10 minutes, otherwise I get cranky. When I lost my virginity it was a "cool...wait what do you mean you're leaving?" kinda thing so ever since I just must be cuddled or I get mean.
12/07/2012
Contributor: shielaray shielaray
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I like to, it's sweet. Especially going from dirty talking, rough sex to sweet cuddles and kisses and tons of affection.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Buh-bye Buh-bye
I enjoy cuddling after sex.
12/07/2012
Contributor: AishiteruYO AishiteruYO
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
No cuddling, no sex. Lolz.
12/09/2012
Contributor: BornInApril BornInApril
For some reason I dont like cuddling after sex. When it's over I scoot over and dont want to be touched anymore for a bit. haha
12/12/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
99% of the time we will. Unless its an afternoon quickie and we have other things to do
12/12/2012
Contributor: Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Yes.
12/14/2012
Contributor: Geography Geography
I LOVE cuddling after sex! But it depends on what time of day we are having sex. Sometimes we throw a quickie in right before we go out...so in those cases we do not cuddle. Or if it is public sex. haha.
12/15/2012
Contributor: vulvalicious vulvalicious
My husband likes to cuddle, but I prefer to roll over and go to bed, ha ha. I'm usually spent, drained and ready to sleep.
12/15/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
always!
12/15/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Yes, I only have casual sex so I don't get to cuddle often and take it when I can get it unless I'm not feeling the guy
12/15/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
most of the time we do.
12/17/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
always love it
12/17/2012
Contributor: Kyle Hunter Kyle Hunter
yes i like 2 be cuddled
12/30/2012
Contributor: srexom srexom
most often yes.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Oh yes, I love it when he cuddles me after. :3
01/15/2013
Contributor: amazon amazon
Always!
01/16/2013
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
Majority of the time yes!
01/16/2013
Contributor: Flower1 Flower1
i'm not a cuddler.
01/16/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
of course. <3
01/17/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We do cuddle after sex, but sometimes life just gets in the way and we move on after sex.
01/21/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
almost always. 99% of the time we spoon right after, its the best.
01/21/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Every single time! It's wonderful.
01/21/2013
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
We cuddle after sex until we fall asleep generally every time unless he's super hot or we had a quickie
02/13/2013
Contributor: Hot4You Hot4You
Yes, most of the time.
02/14/2013
Contributor: ImportPerv ImportPerv
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
They feel guilty for not cuddling with me. Maybe because I dated metros...
02/16/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
I love cuddling.
02/16/2013
Contributor: ToyBunny ToyBunny
You bet!
02/21/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
It depends...usually we just roll over and get up and go get drinks/cleaned up, etc. But occasionally we do...we're cuddly all the time otherwise though so we get our cuddles in other ways
03/07/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I love cuddling ^^
03/11/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
We don't. Since we don't use condoms, we both have to get up to clean up. When we get back to our Cal King bed, we get into the comfortable position of the night; separate with a kiss goodnight. Sometimes we cuddle, but that's if we've had a romantic night, sans kid, and it's not too late.
03/14/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Yes
03/14/2013
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
usually were too hot (I'm (male) usually too hot to be anywhere near anything sometimes i take a cold shower after (i really hat ethe fucking heat) and then maybe if she can otherwise were fine just laying in bed panting who that kinda turned me on thinking about it
03/15/2013
Contributor: MK434 MK434
We never do!
03/15/2013
Contributor: bootyscoops bootyscoops
Me and my boyfriend are massive cuddlers, but we have to be careful to put clothes on after we finish or else cuddling just turns into humping again...
03/17/2013
Contributor: lilyflower lilyflower
I usually don't get to cuddle as much as I'd like to. Most of the guys I've been with liked to get up and go do something else right away.
03/17/2013
Contributor: Badass Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
ViVix , xilliannax
2  (1%)
Breas , Ciao. , wdanas , Lisa72 , switzerland , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Coralbell , Pi , EdenJP , Stinkytofu10 , xyrella , Ghost , Jon S , mpfm , oneeyedoctopus , MissCandyland , Graniteal , Silverdrop , mistressg , eroticmutt , potstickers , Mx.Nekora , lokoum , slynch , purple579 , dhig , SiNn , dbm6907 , MamaDivine , Trepier , Ice1 , plaidvulva , bayosgirl , Howells , cottonxcandy , misskat , toxie m , Kitka , Melan!e , StarFire , queergaze , Hallmar82 , Caus , panthercat23 , Do emu , VelvetDragon , palindromic , Lady Bear , jmex83 , bh253 , xOhxSoxScandalousx , solitudinarian , cryinglightning86 , Ilovelingerie , CherryGryffon , sexxxkitten , SMichelle , LoveBug721 , xwolfiex , Mistress Sassy , BlooJay , LaSchwartz , MaeGal , Teaser , KRD , Crimson Vixen , Zandrock , Girly Juice , Cheluh10 , Badass , treefrog88 , HusbandandWife , Claire de Cerises , Airen Wolf , Undecided , Nora29714 , violets , Llewey , Rossie , Lacey- , MidnightStorm , SaraW0512 , Charry , Tristan's Everything , puglove , MsDrProfKitty , Buh-bye , Geography , nikki0668 , hem , Raymaker , SF , srexom , BrittaniMaree , amazon , ben12 , KinkyNicki92 , shorejen9 , *Camoprincess* , hhh , dos1234 , doowop , Hot4You , KittiezToyz , karenm , JoshJosh123 , KinkyKatieJames , snowminx , sillylilkitten , Jax Jackson , Silverwinds
111  (78%)
darthkitt3n , Missmarc , aliceinthehole , CynicallyYours , MistressDandelion , winterseve , Lildrummrgurl7 , Nacht Stern , Lioncub , alayamae , novanilla , EdenG , falalena , nova2014 , travelnurse , twelve13 , melliegirl
17  (12%)
unfulfilled , Nazaress , Falsepast , chantalgiardina , ejrbrndps , silverdragonfly9 , Passionate Mandi , Clara , pleasurehunter , MrsHouseWife , Martiniman , lilyflower
12  (8%)
Total votes: 142
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Contributor: Breas Breas
I'm completely fine with our cuddling pattern.. It's not too much, but it's not too little... or at least for me anyway. My partner may disagree (he likes cuddling much more than I do)
02/08/2012
Contributor: Lisa72 Lisa72
i got more than enough.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
We do it every time, so I really couldn't ask for more cuddling.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I'm satisfied because we cuddle just about every time after sex.
02/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
As I mentioned in the other, we don't cuddle so it would be nice every once in awhile to get some cuddle time.
02/09/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'm happy with it!!!
02/10/2012
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
We always cuddle!
02/23/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
our routine is good lol
02/25/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I like to be cuddled with sometimes but other times I don't want to be moved cause I'm focusing lol
02/25/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
we cuddle so much that i cant comp,lain
02/25/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
There are plenty of cuddles B)
03/18/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I'm pretty happy with our cuddle time.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I wish we can cuddle more, to be honest.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I actually like to cuddle more than my wife simply because I like to hold her and she feels good. However, sometimes she thinks I'm smothering her.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
I'm pretty satisfied with the cuddles.
04/12/2012
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
Cuddling depends a lot on my mood and the acitvities that preceded it. I tend to need the cuddling more after really rough sex. More romantic sex can sometimes fulfill my cuddle needs.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
We both didnt mind spending all of our free time cuddling when we were together. Yay, long distance relationships!
04/26/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
My partner and I both love cuddling so I am pretty satisfied. ^_^
04/29/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
No, but this is only because we cuddle after every time.
05/20/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I'm the only one who hates cuddling? I can stand hand holding in public, rubbing his shoulders or back or whatever, but I kind of hate having someone all over me.
05/23/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
A little cuddling is fine.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Can't get more than 100%.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I like ours. We almost always cuddle. Unless its a quickie, but that is typically when we just want sex and dont have time for the whole intimate routine and neither of us mind.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
I like ours. We almost always cuddle. Unless its a quickie, but that is typically when we just want sex and dont have time for the whole intimate routine and neither of us mind.
Right? I'm pretty pleased with our cuddle routine.. though we seldom do the quickie thing.
07/29/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I hate cuddling after sex. The sweat skin to skin contact is annoying. If anything lets shower together and then we can cuddle if it means THAT much to you
07/29/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
I am fine with our cuddling dynamics but she would probably like more. Only one thing to do...go have sex so we can cuddle.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We do on occasion but usually he gets up to eat and I clean up.
08/10/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I'm not the cuddly type though I like it sometimes...I think my guys would actually like it if I wanted to cuddle more.
08/31/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
We cuddle a lot before and after sex
11/08/2012
Contributor: Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
i love our cuddling sessions
11/24/2012
Contributor: Buh-bye Buh-bye
No.
12/07/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I believe you can never have enough cuddles
12/12/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
very satisfied
12/15/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
i would like some more cuddling, but other things are more important.
12/17/2012
Contributor: srexom srexom
i'm good with what we got.
01/15/2013
Contributor: amazon amazon
Always plenty already
01/16/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
We cuddle for a little while after sex but we both get so dang hot.
01/21/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
im happy with our cuddle routine. lucky for me i have a really affectionate guy that wishes to set aside time every night before bed to cuddle. even if sex isn't involved that night.
01/21/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
We cuddle all the time so there is no room for complaints. My husband is very affectionate and I love it!
01/21/2013
Contributor: Hot4You Hot4You
I'm happy with the amount of cuddling.
02/14/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I'm pretty happy with how much we do. There is lots of time for cuddling, and sometimes you just want to go take a shower after.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Bme Bme
I love to cuddle. I am more of a cuddler than my wife.
03/16/2013
Contributor: Badass Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
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Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
Settled with an arm over my chest and a leg over mine. Sometimes a cuddle is great other times just an arm and a leg.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Lisa72 Lisa72
ditched the boyfriend and got a girlfriend.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
My ex refused to cuddle, but there was nothing I could do to solve it. One of many reasons why we aren't together anymore.
02/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband doesnt cuddle but I don't know if he doesnt like it or is just ready for something else.
02/09/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I had an ex that didn't really care for it.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Graniteal Graniteal
Quote:
Originally posted by Lisa72
ditched the boyfriend and got a girlfriend.
02/10/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
It didn't work out
02/22/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
yep, and it didn't work it
02/25/2012
Contributor: queergaze queergaze
Like with any problem in a relationship, I'd find the right time to have a conversation about it. If your partner doesn't know cuddling after sex is so important, they might not even know they're upsetting you. And if they simply can't/don't want to do it, if the cuddling is very important to you, they should care about you more than they dislike cuddling after sex. And if it's less of a priority maybe suggest they don't have to do it every time, or you understand they need a minute or two to recover from sex before engaging in physical activity again.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
I'm that partner lmfao.
04/12/2012
Contributor: CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
We argued a lot then I added another partner who likes cuddling so I get what I need if not all from the same person.
04/12/2012
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I didn't do anything about it. It just seemed natural to go to our own sides to sleep.
04/30/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
Brilliant!
05/19/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
No I haven't, but I have only had one partner.
05/20/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
Is that an issue? LOL.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by Lisa72
ditched the boyfriend and got a girlfriend.
That's whats up.
Omissu.
07/29/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
Yeah, and it turned out that he wasn't as affectionate or loving as I needed outside of the bedroom either, so we broke up.
07/29/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
I dont think you could dislike cuddling after sex more than me
07/29/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
If we were not cuddling after sex it was probably just a booty call and not in a real relationship. It kind of didn't matter what happened after sex. That probably sounds worse than I meant it to.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
My partner does not really like cuddling after sex. She always needs to shower and change the sheets first. She's kind-of-a clean freak I guess....
08/10/2012
Contributor: alayamae alayamae
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
Never had a partner. or I didn't want to cuddle either.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I have had partners like this and we would just lay on opposite sides of the bed, it would aggravate me cause I like to be held. I no longer have to worry about that because I now have a man who holds me all night long even after we have had sex.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Lacey- Lacey-
My ex-gf didn't like to cuddle. So if I really wanted cuddles, I often curled up and laid on her stomach. Then she is trapped in an almost cuddle.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Nope. Only slept with one person (still with her) and we both love cuddling.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Buh-bye Buh-bye
Yes, though there was no way to remedy the situation, other than either getting over it or breaking up.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Geography Geography
My boyfriend is an on-off cuddler. And I love to cuddle ALL the time. We just compromise. When we sleep we tend to not cuddle as much because he says I get too hot.
12/15/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
I have never had any issues with a partner not wanting to cuddle.
12/15/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Used to. But that's in the past now.
01/16/2013
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
He says it gets too hot right after, but we separate for 5 minutes to cool off
01/17/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I've never had a cuddle hating sex partner.
01/21/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I love to cuddle so he had to go.
01/21/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
Yes I had a few an there wasn't much to do to solve the issue because he was stuck in his ways
01/21/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
wound up dumping him.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Hot4You Hot4You
Yes, and nothing helped. He just didn't want to do it.
02/14/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
Yeah I have before, I just didn't cuddle with him. Didn't bother me that much, it wasn't my boyfriend so it was understandable.
03/11/2013