I have been with my husband for 8 years. When we first got together like anyother relationships the sex was the total best. But here lately this past year I have came to the conclusion that its starting to get boring. We use to do the sex toys and the foreplay before having sex. But now its gone down hill. He only wants to have sex when I fight with him about it. Which is actually kinda strange cause usely the men are the ones who fight with the women about the sex. He just says he is stressed from work. Now I know alot of you are probably going to think that hes cheating on me, but really hes not and dont have the time to. when we do, do it. Its wham bam thank you mam. What is your out look on something like this? And am I the only one who is going through something like this?
Do you find yourself sometimes thinking that your sex life is boring and you're getting less and less sex with your partner?
07/25/2012
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I've been there before and it was from stress of a newborn. Guys can have decreased sex drives from stress, just like anyone else. Have you tried talking to him in a non-sexual situation about what your needs are and how they're not being met?
07/25/2012
That happened in my previous relationship around the third year, we eventually broke up, though I would say that the boring/infrequent sex was the result of other, larger issues, not the main issue itself.
07/27/2012
I've been with my wife for a long time. I think the sex life has ebbs and flows as life, health, careers and the relationship in general changes. There have been times over the years when our sex life has gotten boring and we've disconnected for a time. On the other hand, while we may not have it as much today (in our 50s), the quality of the sex is so much better! I think like any aspect of a relationship, you have to work at keeping sex fresh and interesting. We've often found that a long weekend away can do wonders for our relationship, sexual and otherwise.
07/27/2012
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It is happening to me. I know he has no time at all to cheat, so that is the furthest thing from the problem. I'm becoming very depressed. I completely understand how you feel. I am at my sexual peak, and he is on the decline. We've only been married 1 1/2 yrs. This is very hard for me to deal with. I'm sad for you, but you aren't alone.
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cgerling06
I have been with my husband for 8 years. When we first got together like anyother relationships the sex was the total best. But here lately this past year I have came to the conclusion that its starting to get boring. We use to do the sex toys and
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I have been with my husband for 8 years. When we first got together like anyother relationships the sex was the total best. But here lately this past year I have came to the conclusion that its starting to get boring. We use to do the sex toys and the foreplay before having sex. But now its gone down hill. He only wants to have sex when I fight with him about it. Which is actually kinda strange cause usely the men are the ones who fight with the women about the sex. He just says he is stressed from work. Now I know alot of you are probably going to think that hes cheating on me, but really hes not and dont have the time to. when we do, do it. Its wham bam thank you mam. What is your out look on something like this? And am I the only one who is going through something like this?
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