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Do you say I love you every day?

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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Every couple is different, but I figured it was pretty universal that every couple said "I love you" to each other every day or a few times a day.

Do you? Or do you only say it every now and then? Or do you feel the need to say it at all? Is it just one of those unspoken things?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, say it every day at least once
290
We say it every now and then
26
Don't say it at all
3
It's unspoken and can be seen in the eyes/touch/kiss/etc
33
other
15
Total votes: 367 (335 voters)
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Contributor: Sammi Sammi
We say it quite a bit to each other
10/12/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Everyday, multiple times a day.
10/12/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I try to say it as frequently as possible.. usually multiple times a day.
10/12/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
Everyday, ALOT. =) Everytime, it makes me feel bubbly and alive!
10/12/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
We say it several times a week, but not every single day. I'm not someone who says I love you everytime I leave or end a phone call. I like to save it for private moments. Sometimes I will randonly send him a text that says I love you to brighten up his day, but I prefer to say it in person.
10/12/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Oh yes! We say it multiple times a day!
10/12/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I honestly can't say if we do. There is a huge level of confidence in the relationship - so if doesn't happen no one is upset. But if I had to guess it happens 98% or more of the time.
10/12/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I honestly can't say if we do. There is a huge level of confidence in the relationship - so if doesn't happen no one is upset. But if I had to guess it happens 98% or more of the time.
As for us, we don't say it every day. We really haven't said it to each other in a few weeks. Not because we don't feel it. It's more of a personal choice. It bothered me at first before we talked about it. But I can see it in the way she looks at me and touches me and kisses me. I've never... had this level confidence, as you say, in a relationship. It's refreshing, but new to me....

Okay, I gotta stop before I start gushing. The girl in me is kicking in.
10/12/2011
Contributor: Liz x420x Liz x420x
we say it multiple times a day
10/13/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
My husband tells me every day. I don't say it often.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I chose that we say it every day, because we say it at LEAST once to one another every day, typically many times. I also chose that it can be unspoken, because we don't just have to say it or hear it we also feel it
10/13/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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We say it constantly!
10/13/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We say it quite often, but we show it more. It's important to us to show it before we say it, because words are ultimately meaningless without action.
10/13/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by AndroAngel
We say it quite often, but we show it more. It's important to us to show it before we say it, because words are ultimately meaningless without action.
This is very true. My girlfriend has said something very, very similar.
10/13/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Everyday!
10/13/2011
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Everyday definitely, usually more than once. But I agree that the showing it part is more important than just saying it all the time.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
It shows in our actions, but I tell my husband I love him all the time.
10/13/2011
Contributor: catgirl9 catgirl9
Every day, multiple times per day. I also love getting texts from hubby that simply say "I love you".
10/13/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Every day, multiple times a day. It's almost become kind of our hello, in a way. It's pretty awesome and of course we show each other in physical ways, but sometimes it's especially excellent to hear the words.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
He leaves before me in the morning about 90% of the time, and I always get a kiss and a boob squeeze before he goes. I get really upset if he forgets, because I automatically assume he is upset with me. If I leave before him, he ends up waking up anyway, so I go and lay on his bag and nuzzle his neck.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Every day, multiple times. Some times you can't even say it enough!
10/13/2011
Contributor: big b big b
most days
10/13/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
There might be times that it isn't said, but I think we say it everyday for the most part.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
With DH being deployed we make sure to email it to each other every day, just in case, God forbid, something happens.
10/13/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
Every day (at least, when we can... there have been times we couldn't, moreso when he was in the military).
10/13/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
We say it a lot. And I get a kiss and told I love you every morning before he goes to work.
10/13/2011
Contributor: DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
Recently we haven't been saying it at all. =/
We're on the verge of falling apart.. so #BLAH
10/13/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
In the beginning we said it all the time, but now we share it with a smile, touch or naughty 'goose'. We are more secure and need less reassurance and will show each other most of the time, we do say it either every day to every couple days, though.
10/13/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
In the beginning we said it all the time, but now we share it with a smile, touch or naughty 'goose'. We are more secure and need less reassurance and will show each other most of the time, we do say it either every day to every couple days, though.
I like that.

It honestly scared me when she got a little upset that I was saying it multiple times a day. She said it felt like I wasn't sure she loved me back and she does, and she didn't think it needed to be said so much because she's a big believer that the more you say something, the less it means. So, we save it for when it really means something. We kiss each other goodbye with a smile and that's how we know. I feel more secure now when I don't say it all the time than I did when I said it all the time. It's weird, but I like it.
10/13/2011