My fiance and I don't have this issue at all. We get frustrated when we want to have good sex, but just can't. But when it comes to taking a break, being busy, etc. We don't really get bothered by it. We both have hands and toys, and if we are that frustrated we just take it to the shower.

We stop having sex when I'm on my period, which can be stressful because that is the most horniest time of the month for both of us. Either because I want it so bad and can't have it, or because I am simply a hormone infested horny monster for that entire week.

My sister is having this issue, and I pointed out that maybe their focus is solely on sex. So basically, sex means TOO MUCH to them. I love sex, absolutely. Never want to give it up. But sometimes your focus has to be on other more important things, or this can just keep happening. She said that they hadn't had sex for about 5 days and she wanted to like leave him because it was making her so upset. And then another time she said that she didn't feel loved because it had been like 3 or 4 days since they last had sex.

yes. sometimes i just NEED to come or NEED to feel connected to my partner.

Absolutely. We've noticed that we tend to start arguing if we go without sex.

Absolutely. Both of us are much nicer when we both have regular orgasms, versus getting a bit cranky when we haven't.

I can get cranky if I go without sex for a few days although I've gone months before without it during pregnancy and after giving birth. I enjoy sex with feeling connected to my Master but sometimes with having kids it just gets too busy to find time. We treasure our overnights when we get them and can find time to be together.

Little things do start to irritate me after about 3 days without. Now, if there's a reason we're not having sex (sickness, injury, out of town, etc) then I don't get cranky or irritated, but if we're just at home being normal, then yes I do.

similar for me, but it is after just 24-36 hours...

She has a higher sex drive than me and with our open relationship, has more partners and opportunities for sex. As long as her extracurricular fun does not cut into our sex time, I'm good!

I need it about every 24-36 hours. If I don't get it, I get snarky and sometimes, down right bitchy. He will tease me and tell me I need a beating (that will usually make me change gears and make me think bedroom thoughts). He gets moody and short with his temper when he has been without too.

He has been away for work a lot this year. Right now he is gone again, dammit! The snark is riding high on my tongue and my tolerance for things that annoy me is VERY short.