Does sex ever feel like a chore to you?

Never fills like a chore to me

I feel this way quite often, actually. Not because of the actual "work" involved, but because I know the likelihood of me getting an enjoyable experience out of it is slim to none. I mainly do it because it's not fair to my husband to withhold playtime from him.

There's been a few times when it felt like a chore, but only a few the whole time we've been together (3 1/2 years now), and it was because one of us was really tired Well actually there was a span of a few weeks where my sex drive was just DEAD for no reason, but I felt awful turning him down every single night. I'm really glad that was temporary, I hate having a low sex drive.

With my ex it was like that now and then. He wasn't exactly the best and picking up on things, or taking suggestions, so it wasn't always fun for me

often, i find my energy level in general makes me sorta lazy at it and reluctant at times. i also have a tendency to date people who want way too much sex way too often, with minimal communication or bonding or functional relationship building in between sex.

When I'm sick or tired it does feel like a chore.

I haven't felt like this, but my husband probably has with how crazy I get sometimes. lol

Only if the other person doesn't know what they're doing.

sometimes it happens

initiating helps me get past that.

Eh, off and on.. But it is mostly situational. Currently we are living with his grandmother, so it is kind of awkward and I can not release quite as well. I'm sure it will be better when we are in our own house. Well, with the exception of being nervous that birth control will fail me.

I only felt this way with my ex-fiance who told me that since we were gonna be married I had to have sex with him and give him oral, even if I didn't want to. I have a feeling that boy would have raped me.
My husband, Andy, though, doesn't make me feel that way. He knows my past and knows when I'm good and ready I'll go to town on him. He accepts that.

My wife has told me on many, many occasions that it's just too much effort and she doesn't have the energy for it. At least she's truthful with me. I would feel bad if I found it she had sex with me because she felt obligated. Still it makes me feel rejected and unwanted but what can you do?

this is a subject that goes through my head every now and then, especially with a baby to take care of by myself (thats a differant subject tho) and i have to try to satisfy my man sometimes i just do it so that he isnt looking at porn more than he is looking at me...

Nopenever a chore

Sometimes. It never did until I had our daughter though. I have just been perpetually exhausted since we had her (even though she sleeps well, I don't - I wake up to the slightest noise now!!) and I still have pain in my episiotomy site...so sometimes being tired and knowing if I'm not totally in the mood it will hurt makes it seem like an insurmountable task. Not because I don't want to though. I've never rejected my S/O or turned down sex...He's very good about reading me and not trying to initiate when I'm clearly very tired or distracted with other things. The few times he has initiated when I'm not in the mood, I've gone with it because I really don't mind. I know he much prefers when I'm totally into it though, so he'd rather wait and not even try until he's guaranteed I'll get into it. Lately it's more been me just not initiating as often as I used to, even though I still want to as often - I just sometimes can't get in the right mind frame to put as much effort into it as I'd like and I don't want to get him all hot and bothered only to give mediocre sex!

I've never felt that way. I've gotten annoyed with him and not wanted to, but I'm always willing. I'll take it where I can get it. lol

I have a few times, but it was in the months right after my youngest daughter was born and I was nursing all night long.

I sometimes feel this way because between school work and 2 kids i am usually to tierd

Sluggish occasionally, but never like it's a chore, never totally "ugh, I don't feel like this."

When I have work on my mind, or other things on my to do list, it seems that I cannot focus or relax enough to commit to enjoying sex fully. There are times that I am so tired and would rather sleep but I have sex to please my partner. I know that I have the option not to, but i like fulfilling her needs.

I've never felt like sex was a chore. Then again, I've always had a high libido.

No, I always look forward to it. But I can think of a few times with my ex (who was selfish in bed) that towards the end I just kind of wanted it to be over. I can't imagine feeling that way about sex as a whole though (like if your partner wants sex and you have it out of obligation and there are mixed feelings involved on both sides). That sounds pretty bad...

I get really tired after a long day and sometimes I just don't feel like it he is okay with it. Sometimes he is also too tired