Does your significant other find any of your friends hot?

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Does your significant other find any of your friends hot?

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Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat on me. She finds 3 of my friends hot, and she also finds my mom hot (it really creeps out my mom, but that's another story). I thought it was kind of funny that she found some of my friends hot but not others (I guess they weren't her type). We live with another lesbian couple and she's always trying to catch a glimpse of them naked. We dismiss this behavior as cute curiosity.

Anyway, my 3 hot friends have suggested a trip to a nude beach in a nearby state as a gift to my girlfriend. I thought it was sweet that they want to make her happy.

I would be upset if my girlfriend were kissing or sleeping with any of them, but I have no problem with her taking a look or thinking they're hot.

How do you feel?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
My partner says s/he doesn't find any of my friends hot.
13
I certainly hope my partner doesn't find any of my friends hot.
11
I don't think my partner finds any of my friends hot, but it would be okay if s/he did.
6
I know my partner finds some of my friends hot and it bothers me.
1
My partner finds some of my friends hot, and it does not bother me.
16
Other.
4
Total votes: 51 (44 voters)
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03/22/2011
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Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Everyone looks, everyone thinks someone else is hot.. if they say otherwise they are full of it. The Man will say if a friend is hot just as I will his friends. Its no big deal.
03/22/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
It doesn't bother me that I have some hot friends! I would think it was weird if he disagreed.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
It doesn't bother me that I have some hot friends! I would think it was weird if he disagreed.
I guess I'm ambivalent. My girlfriend thinks some of my friends are hot and some aren't, which leaves me wondering, "So, what's wrong with her? My friend isn't good enough for you, huh?"
03/23/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
she says hat she doesn't. I think some of her friends are kind of hot.
03/23/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I guess you could say we're don't ask/don't tell about friends. Strangers, yes, we'll discuss hot or not, but we don't want to cause tension about friends.
03/23/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
I don't think she does but it wouldn't be a problem. We are only human and of course we see attractive features in other people.
03/25/2011
Contributor: Love&War Love&War
I've always said "You can walk past the bakery and still smell the bread"
03/29/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I know he thinks some of my friends are hot. He bugs me about setting up threesomes with them, but I don't want to take my friendships to that level. I would rather find someone who neither of us know and has no ties to.
03/29/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I do have to disagree with the statement that everyone looks and everyone find people hott. That is not true for me. I do not find other men or women hot in any way. I find other women pretty, but that's it. I do not look at men except for my partner and he's the same way. Most people don't agree with that type of relationship, but we're happy that way and when I say I believe strongly in being faithful, I mean it 100%. I don't look and I never have the desire to look at another person with lust. Yes, we're that happy with each other. My idea of love is to love with your full heart and nothing less. My idea of love is to love one person and only them. That's only me though. I'm not saying it's wrong if other's aren't the same way. I can't say what's true and what's not true about other people. No one can. Nobody can know that someone does or does not do something. Just because it is common, does not mean it's untrue or impossible.

I wouldn't think it was "sweet" if my friends wanted to be naked with my partner. I hardly think they're doing it to please the girl. More than likely, they're doing it to please themselves and use the "Oh, I'm just being a nice guy, only being nude on a beach with my friend's GF just to make her happy." They're probably using that as an excuse, but I'd hardly think it was only for her. I could be wrong. I'm not saying it's impossible, I just wouldn't see it as so innocent if it were me.
04/16/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat ... more
He never said anything
04/16/2011
Contributor: Retro Retro
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat ... more
I only reply other because of how my partner is attracted toward someone. I have a friend who has bigger thighs. I also have bigger thighs and it is one this that really attracts my partner to me. When my friend came over to pick me up one day we were both wearing yoga type pants and when I returned home my partner told me it was a turn on to see us standing side by side in pants that hugged our hips and thighs. It does not bother me. I know nothing would happen between any of us. I also have no problem with my partner viewing another person's body or clothed body parts. I am sure I wouldn't mind if my partner saw naked body parts either but I am unsure how that circumstance would happen, haha.
04/16/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Probably. He's a guy.. guys like to look. >_> Dont really like it.. but, thats the way guys are programmed. Cant do anything about it lol. As long as I can look too, we're all good!
04/16/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat ... more
My bf is hot and Im not hideous, lol, I think its fine if people are attracted to others as long as you dont act on it without permission.
04/17/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
My wife dispises most of my friends. Their is always something about them that she doesn't like, maybe they are arrogant, to fat or just plain dumb. I'm not trying to put down people who are over weight, I'm just saying how my wife feels about my friends. One of my buddys is like 150 lbs over weight and he comes from a dad that was in the NFL and he is like 6' 5" 260 lbs absolutely shreaded with muscle, and a mom that is like six feet tall and in shape. He is fat because he is truly lazy, but he's my best friend so I don't care.

I guess I find some of my wifes friends attractive, but nothing that would make me want to have sex with them. They are just attractive nice people.
04/20/2011
Contributor: FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat ... more
Its ok he is with me
04/20/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I don't really have any female friends so... he doesn't find any of my friends "hot" lol.
04/20/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
I doubt it
04/20/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
He doesn't but i'd be upset
04/25/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
pretty sure he doesnt
04/25/2011
Contributor: ---- ----
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
I do have to disagree with the statement that everyone looks and everyone find people hott. That is not true for me. I do not find other men or women hot in any way. I find other women pretty, but that's it. I do not look at men except for my ... more
You took the words right out of my mouth!
04/25/2011
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
My girlfriend finds many of my friends hot. I'm not polyamorous (it's cool if you are, it's just not my style ) and our relationship isn't open. However, I'm just not the jealous type. I fully believe that she would never cheat ... more
She doesn't like most of my friends. lol
10/21/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I don't think that he does. I don't have many female friends though.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
I don't think that he does.
03/20/2013
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
I voted other, because I don't have any friends for my partner to even consider whether they're hot or not lol
03/20/2013