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Have you ever slept in a different area of your partner after a fight?

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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Yes
35  (57%)
No
26  (43%)
Total votes: 61
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07/22/2012
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Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
Technically No because I always sleep in bed. But if we've been fighting he sleeps on the couch.
07/22/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
No, we prefer to make up
07/22/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I've never lived with a partner, so this has never been particularly applicable.
07/22/2012
Contributor: puppylove puppylove
Yes, he's slept in a different room in the house for a few weeks once
07/22/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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I have been in a separate room after a fight but I usually don't sleep much. It hurts to be distant with my partners and I find I just can't relax and sleep if I let the anger fester. Generally we try to duke it out and then call a truce at bedtime.
07/22/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
When we fight tooth and nail and end up almost hating eachother--I leave and sleep at my retail business. I have stayed there for as little as a few hours to a week. The space eventually helps.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
SOMETIMES I'll sleep on the couch, since I'm smaller and can fit on it better, if it's THAT bad, but usually we'll just sleep unsnuggled for the night, but by morning the snuggles are always back.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Have slept in my kid's rooms when they were small or in the living room, never more than 1 night though.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My ex and I agreed to never go to bed angry - so fights have lasted until the wee hours in the morning (usually with me accepting blame :-/ ). Although I wish he slept somewhere else for the duration of our marriage because his snoring was awful and I couldn't sleep.
07/22/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I've never lived with a partner, but I hope that we wouldn't do that - it's terrible going to bed angry at someone.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
We start to, but it never lasts. One or the other always cuddles up.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Yes, when I had one.
07/22/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
My husband is the only partner I've ever lived with (previous relationships we spent most every night together but officially each had ou own place) and we've never slept apart after a fight because we don't fight.

A handful of serious disagreements over the past 18+ years but nothing that even made me think of sleeping separately.
07/22/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
No but there are times that I've thought about kicking him out or to the couch, I never do though
07/22/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, only when one of us was sick and noisy
07/23/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
We've slept in separate rooms...and occasionally separate houses. Sometimes you need some space.
07/23/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
No. I prefer to fight until the fight is over.
07/23/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
If he won't leave and sleep on the couch then I'll go and try to sleep in the livingroom on the couch. But he always gets up in the middle of the night to lead me back to bed. Heehee.
07/23/2012
Contributor: meluaz69 meluaz69
Yes I have slept on the couch maybe a little childish of me should have worked it out but ......
07/23/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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yes but only for 5 hours lol
07/24/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Yes, but not because we where angry at eachother... just because we live at different houses right now.
07/24/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
yeaa he'll sleep on the couch
07/24/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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its good to cool off
07/24/2012
Contributor: Mistress Sassy Mistress Sassy
No, as we usually work things out after we fight in a few minutes, a few hours, or after we've gone to bed, but sometimes one of us will distance ourselves in the bed (mostly not cuddling like we usually do) because we're still a bit "pissed" at the other. We've never slept in different areas because we were mad. He has threatened it once, or I threatened to kick him out, but nope!
07/24/2012
Contributor: Gina RPG Geek Gina RPG Geek
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Originally posted by Lavendar
Technically No because I always sleep in bed. But if we've been fighting he sleeps on the couch.
Once or twice
07/28/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
ive fallin asleep in another room
07/29/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
No, we always resolve our issues before going to sleep. We're both very level minded people.
07/29/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Sure have! We have both taken our turns sleeping on the couch for one reason for another.
02/02/2013
Contributor: rainbowbritexx rainbowbritexx
When we first moved in together we did. I think were past that now.
02/02/2013