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Have you ever told someone you love them when you really didn't and just didn't want to hurt their feelings?

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Contributor: snowminx snowminx
when you really didn't and you just didn't want to hurt their feelings? Like say they have told you that they love you on a couple of occasions now and you're comfortable in a relationship and don't want to mess it up.
If you haven't, would you?
04/10/2013
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
Haven't been in love yet.
04/11/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Yes I have. I felt terrible after doing so also. It was a situation where we had been in a relationship for a bit of time and he said it first. I could see that hopeful look in his eyes and I didn't want to crush him so I just blurted it out.
04/11/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
hmmm That is one word I try not to throw around too loosely. I might have when I believed I was, but never when I didn't mean it.
04/11/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I don't toss those words around loosely like Trysexual said, if I am not feeling the "love" there I won't say it and it usually takes me a good while before saying in. In the relationship I am in now the "love you" or "I love you" didn't come out of either of our mouths for oh about 6-7 months.
04/11/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Yes, and to this day I still feel bad about it. We were out for dinner with his family for his Dad's birthday, at a pub and had all had a bit to drink. His sister came over to sit beside me and told me, loudly, that her brother loved me....did I love him to? His whole family was sitting there staring at me expectantly, him included....I just didn't know what else to say. I didn't want to do that in front of his family, at all. It was just an awful situation all around and I handled it the wrong way!
04/12/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
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Originally posted by snowminx
when you really didn't and you just didn't want to hurt their feelings? Like say they have told you that they love you on a couple of occasions now and you're comfortable in a relationship and don't want to mess it up.
If you haven't, would you?
Not that I can recall.

Once, a girl in school had a crush on me, but I was pretty lukewarm about her. She kept dropping hints and sending those body language signals until I finally kissed her. Right after, she told me she loved me. I paused, looked deeply into her eyes for a couple of beats and, totally seriously, replied, "I know". Hey, if it's good enough for Han Solo...
04/12/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, since I knew how bad it was when it happened to me. I will try to let people down softly though
04/12/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
nope
04/12/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Yes but not in a relationship. I've said it to friends and stuff because they'll say "I love you!" or "Love ya!" (I HATE the Love ya one!!!) and I feel obligated. But I really don't like saying it in that context because love is a strong word.
04/13/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
It's happened, yeah.
04/13/2013