So, I've been dating this guy for going on 6 months, I suppose that's not horribly longer term though. So he knows that I review toys and he reads my blog (or says he does at least) and has input on the types of toys and products we review, since he'll probably see them too. The only thing is if I mention getting a male toy, he completely refuses. He's totally fine with me using them, but when I ask him why he doesn't want to at least try some new things he says "I don't need them". Gee, thanks for making me feel like I do need them, that's not appreciated. I like to experiment with new sensations and feelings and stuff, so I just can't understand why he doesn't. He's also told me before that he's tried anal play on himself and he likes it, but said it was "messy" and doesn't want to try it again, even with proper toys and lube. If you like it why don't you want to try it again? So I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions to get him interested in trying out new things. He's all for new positions and lubes and stuff during sex, but just doesn't want to try things in his solo time.