I met someone the other day that set a time limit on herself. Basically, this girl dated a guy for 6 years. They were high school sweet hearts and broke up a few months ago. When I told her I knew a guy I thought would be perfect for her, she turned me down saying she wasn't going to date til it had been a year, even though her and the ex have no future.
Would you ever do this? Would you ever set a limit like this?
For me, even after my longest relationship, I figured I wasted enough years of my life with the last loser, why wait to find a much better person and be happy? I am so glad I did. I did set a time frame for myself for sex, but not for dating and considering new people. I started officially dating a guy two months after.
I feel like this girl is missing out! Not limiting myself is the best thing I could have done. I was happy so much quicker than I though I'd be. Happier than I had been even.
What do you think? What makes this a good choice or a bad choice? Have you done it and regretted it? Wish you had? jumped in too quick? Etc.
Would you ever do this? Would you ever set a limit like this?
For me, even after my longest relationship, I figured I wasted enough years of my life with the last loser, why wait to find a much better person and be happy? I am so glad I did. I did set a time frame for myself for sex, but not for dating and considering new people. I started officially dating a guy two months after.
I feel like this girl is missing out! Not limiting myself is the best thing I could have done. I was happy so much quicker than I though I'd be. Happier than I had been even.
What do you think? What makes this a good choice or a bad choice? Have you done it and regretted it? Wish you had? jumped in too quick? Etc.