How often do you do it?

at least 2-3 times a week

Every night that we go to bed next to each other.

usually at least two or more times a day

Minimum is 3x a week, usually more.

3-5x per day 7 days

Not often, but not never either, and not always with each other. We have kids that are always around so it's not like we can just do it whenever we want. Neither of us is complaining though.

It varies a LOT for us too. It just depends on what's going on. Sometimes we're every day, sometimes it's every other day. I don't like to go much longer than 2 or 3 days though - unless someone is sick, or I'm all crampy from my period.

Well, it really varies for us. When we were living further away from each other, we'd see each other once a month for about 3 days, in which we would do it many many times. Then with my old job, I'd have a lot of time off and we'd see each other about every other week and do it several times then. With my new job, he's much closer and we see each other every week, but due to life, we rarely do it anymore. It sucks. Now that he's 20 minute away our sex life is dead. Hopefully that will change eventually.

I'm in an LDR so the real answer is "not often enough", but when we're together we average once a day, often more.

Every other day sounds about right. Though it can be quite sporadic depending on our work schedules and other things.

We both live a state apart for the time being and are generally intimate only on weekends, how often each weekend varies depending on our plans and how tiring our work weeks have been.

We have been together almost two years. A whirlwind of a romance; it was very quick and passionate. My first love after my divorce (married EARLY).

We used to do it three times a day, literally, for maybe four months? Then I became the breadwinner for various reasons and he took a huge self-esteem blow and felt like the submissive. We have a BDSM thing, so it was hard for him.

Now he has some testosterone imbalances (testing via saliva, the best way, I think), hardcore training and tests for his new career/full time, soul-draining job/and radio station gig. He is VERY busy. He commutes. He deals with me when I feel unwell, which is often because I have adrenal fatigue and fibro.

We are going to a therapist soon because after the sex dropped off, I got resentful and can't shake the feeling.

We now have sex once a week. I would prefer daily. He says he'd like to daily as well. He doesn't even masturbate though. I do daily, even when I'm laid daily!

depends. but usually every other day or every day.

I voted twice a week and that's approx. the truth, but NOT ENOUGH!

We don't live together, he works a lot and I have to study really hard, because the graduation is not far off... So, unfortunately, it's only 2-3 times a week at most.

It varies for me & my partner too. Some weeks, when I'm not having pain from endomtriosis, we'll do it several times. When I have flare ups, we can't do it without it being too painful so we kind of have to work around it. Usually there will be one week out of the month that it has to be very easy or none at all b/c it'll just be too much to bear. But besides that, if we're not extremely busy, it's 3-4 times a week, sometimes more. Sometimes less, but we make those count!

Sometimes once every other day sometimes twice a day

Because she's boarding at school and I'm not, we only get to see each other for a day a week, so usually 3x/week

At least once a day.

We do 6 to 10 times a week. Usually we have one "rest day" a week. (Whew) But, some days it's morning and night. We only get an afternoon in once in a great while (we have kids and he's usually at work on weekdays.)

It slows but doesn't stop during my period. There is about a 24 hour period where I feel awful and bleed heavily, he couldn't care less, (he cares I don't feel well, he doesn't care about the blood. He says, "I'm still getting laid,and I'm washable, too." ) and sometimes the orgasms help the cramps, so it depends on how I'm feeling otherwise. If we can get a good round of sex with orgasms for me in right as my period starts I have much less cramping.

It's more of when we feel like having sex. I don't mean we're at the stage where it's hard to get turned on - we're always turned on. But, I have Epilepsy and Crohn's, so I get sick a lot out of nowhere. On those nights he may just want to take care of me. We also live apart, because we are only engaged and not married yet. My fiance and I are almost always sleeping at one another's house or spending lots of time there... but some days he will be away because of his air force work, or he will be doing something with his family. There are those weeks when we want to practice love outside of sex. I am also an artist, aside from my work as a sexual health counselor. He's not at all good at art in his opinion... but for instance, rather than having sex for the entire week about two weeks ago we each worked on a painting that showed our love for one another. They came out really beautiful, especially his. I think his outshines mine!

So basically, we have other ways of intimacy. But sex is something we practice regularly. If I had to give some sort of a definite answer, I would say every other night.

some people are not in the mood all the time

is it normal to not want sex as much after having two kids?

When ever im in the mood to and were alone ;]

We only see each other on the weekends right now, but we average about 4-5 times per weekend.

at least twice a week